I feel dry...

[without-law.livejournal.com]

Recently I have been deflowered and through each session I have had, which is three including the first time, I have felt really dry. My partner said that he felt that I was wet but I still feel like I wasn't wet. We have tried using lube (plenty of it) but it still wasn't enough. I know that there were times where I have gotten so wet that it was visible through my underwear, so what do you all think the problem is? Is it that I'm just not in the right mindset of my partner is not doing enough to turn me on?

Comments

[geeksdoitbetter.livejournal.com]

i'd like to second the idea that, if you can feel lubrication with your fingers (and it feels properly slippery) but penetration is still uncomfortable, then you can totally ponder readiness and ways to relax

temperature plays a large role, for me

as well as how large the inserting object is, some things are just too big at the beginning of sexy times, but will fit right in 30 min later