'small' vagina and keeper/instead troubles

[unearthlyfaerie.livejournal.com]

So, a while back I used to post to VP regarding my frequent troubles in removing insteads... No matter WHAT I did, they exploded as soon as i tried to remove them. (explode in the gush of blood-before-the-instead-was-nearly-out type) It never occured to me that the problem might be the size of my vagina. My theory is, that removal is SO messy due to there being absolutely no where for the blood to go as i'm removing the cup. There's barely enough room for me to pull it out comfortably. I just bought a keeper last week, and, I know if takes practise to insert, but i can't even get in in at all. It's almost as if i'm a child trying to put a large triangle block into a small square hole. I'm going to keep trying at it, but i don't see how it's possibly going to fit.

Now, I haven't, as of this time, ever had any vaginal-type experiences with anyone but myself soo... I have no idea if i truely am 'smaller than normal'. I haven't had sex in over 6 months, and even when i did, it was usually VERY painful. Perhaps if there are any other people out there with such problems, we should band together and create some sort of keeper applicator. (if there was some sort of rounded point, it might work a little easier)

of course, all of this might just be somehow related to my giant fibroid tumor, but, well, hopefully not.

thank you for reading!

Comments

[mooseloon.livejournal.com]

i use insteads, and, if i tilt my hips forwards when i pee and squeeze i can empty out most of the instead by just squeezing it internally. Somtimes it takes a bit - especiaslly if my flow is particuarly thick. You may want to try this - its also helpful when you're flow is heavy, as you dont have to change it nearly that often - you just go and "pee" it out. As you're not taking it *out* you're not contaminating it with outside germs. You may want to poke a finger in there after you're done to make sure its slid back into place - sometimes i'll dislodge mine to the point where it needs a little readjustment. This - imo is actually one of the coolest aspect of insteads.