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vaginapaginaWhy doesn't my boyfriend want to have sex with me. I mean... we fool around and do sexual things. But, the actual ACT of sex doesn't seem appealing to him anymore.. ever.
He'll go down on me, use the vibrator on me and he'll even jack off to me. But, he hasn't been in the mood for actual intercourse in what seems like weeks.
It's all fun when he does that other stuff to me.. but I really would just to have him, you know? What can I do? Is this my fault??
He'll go down on me, use the vibrator on me and he'll even jack off to me. But, he hasn't been in the mood for actual intercourse in what seems like weeks.
It's all fun when he does that other stuff to me.. but I really would just to have him, you know? What can I do? Is this my fault??
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Date: 2003-10-16 05:44 pm (UTC)One of the signs that a man is cheating is a sudden change in how much you have sex ie if you have sex all the time, it's all of a sudden none.. or if it was hardley ever, it's all the time!
I was SURE he was cheating on me.
I talked to him about it the other night. Turns out he has jock itch and was embarassed to tell me, so he just wanted to wait until it healed up.
I put myself through so much resentment and I got SO angry at him for something he wasn't even doing.
Just talk to him.