Question...

[ldygabilan.livejournal.com]

Why doesn't my boyfriend want to have sex with me. I mean... we fool around and do sexual things. But, the actual ACT of sex doesn't seem appealing to him anymore.. ever.

He'll go down on me, use the vibrator on me and he'll even jack off to me. But, he hasn't been in the mood for actual intercourse in what seems like weeks.

It's all fun when he does that other stuff to me.. but I really would just to have him, you know? What can I do? Is this my fault??

Comments

[privatized.livejournal.com]

I have a current partner who will on occasion have intercourse, but mostly prefers all other sexual activity, because he feels a sense of guilt with intercourse. Everyone is different. What's going on with him may be something psychological, or physical (some guys can most easily orgasm under one kind of stimulation). Whatever it is, it's not your fault. You gotta allow people to have their sexual quirks, but if you're in a close relationship with someone, there may be ways of compromising where everyone will be happy.