bisexual

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Those of you who are bisexual - do you family and friends know? how did you tell them?

I'm having a tough time trying to aknowledge strong feelings I have for another female and I really want to explore this situation further. I have been with a girl several years ago but it was just a one night only thing. I enjoyed the experience but find myself attracted to men more often than women..so I'm really confused. The hardest part is none of my family or friends know and I wouldn't even know how to break the news (if I did pursue some kind of relationship).

Sorry if this is off topic :-/

Comments

[elephantus45.livejournal.com]

I think you just have to be open with her. Some relationships are not always meant to be finding your life partner but ment for fun. Sorry if that sounds weird, its early in the morning for me. There is nothing wrong with seeing where it will go with a girl but talking about how you feel is probably the biggest part (if she is definantly looking for a life partner, would that change your view on the situation? or if she just wants an fb?)

I tried to keep an open mind, not looking for a guy or a girl just dating whomever I liked at the time. Until I met this guy and knew he was right for me, right away (and he let me date women until I decided not to, while being in a relationship with him, unopen on his side, which helped me to not feel trapped or anything).