"Squirting"

[rikkitsune.livejournal.com]

Hiya!

I want to ask a question that may very likely be considered a bit dumb, but I am curious and have no point of reference in RL. Apologies in advance if this has been covered, my computer is playing up and won't let me go tag-digging (it also won't let me tag).

Squirting. I have heard that people who squirt experience very powerful orgasms - in some cases more powerful than people who don't squirt. I have also heard that a lot of squirters prefer not to have anything inside them when this happens. I have certainly seen it to be the case in porn.

Is this true? Which kind of leads to my next question.

I don't (currently) squirt. Is this something that only some people are able to do (like being able to curl your tongue), or can I, a non-squirting woman, train myself to do it? I would love to be able to experience it, if I can.

Comments

[cheesybunny.livejournal.com]

Well, my partner really wanted me to do it, so he read up on it and found that putting lots of pressure on the g-spot (aka doing the come-hither motion really hard with 2-3 fingers) will eventually make me squirt. At first it took awhile to get used to the sensation but after doing it a few times I got used to it and have been able to squirt this way ever since.
As for having things inside me, since I can only do it this way I HAVE to have fingers doing this inside me or it won't happen. The orgasms from this are really intense but they aren't as pleasurable as my normal orgasms.

[sh4des-of-grey.livejournal.com]

As a "squirter" I agree with this comment x7677342. Everything is true for me as well.

[jennifer0246.livejournal.com]

this is the most common way i see it described, yes.

[wife-and-mom.livejournal.com]

I agree with the first comment. G-spot stimulation does the trick for me but I'm not a big fan of just that.

Honestly, I kind of think squirting orgasms are a bit uncomfortable. The pleasure it takes for me to get to that point is A LOT and after awhile it starts to feel more painful than pleasuring so it's not more intense in a good way for me. I prefer normal orgasms much more.

[fl0e.livejournal.com]

I've always wondered, too. During really intense orgasms, I'll sort of..ooze :B

[whatweneversaid.livejournal.com]

I've had the same thing happen. Is that what people mean, by squirting, or is it different?

[sydneyjs12.livejournal.com]

I've always squirted, with any kind of orgasm, however that comes about. So, there's no difference between a squirting orgasm, and one that isn't, because that doesn't happen. G-spot stimulation makes it more intense, but isn't essential at all.

[rikkitsune.livejournal.com]

Oooooooh, thanks! I'm always on the lookout for excellent toys, and money is really no object if it's good quality. I remember forking out over $300 for my Eroscillator, and it was the best purchase I've ever made! XD

[paraxeni.livejournal.com]

Just a heads up, not everyone on VP is a 'lady' (or even a woman for that matter). I've never heard specific objection to 'female ejaculation' as a term, but I doubt the people arguing against it would embrace "ladies who squirt" because that's even more implicitly gendered. 'Squirters' or 'people who can squirt' is more inclusive, and doesn't carry the same connotations as 'ladies' does.

On to the act itself! Any form of arousing stimulation, thoughts and words included, can make me squirt. In fact I've been doing it for so long I can virtually do it on command. For me the ejaculation itself *is* the orgasm in that case. Clitoral, vaginal, g-spot, anal and mental orgasms all involve more pleasure and emotions than a squirty one, although squirting can also happen in the context of other orgasms too, which can be great or off-putting depending on which kind it is. It's not terribly easy to explain! The fluid is also very astringent and completely strips away my natural lube.

[rikkitsune.livejournal.com]

Noted! I guess I was falling back into the Aussie colloquialisms of my age group (we use 'ladies' a lot when referring to the female collective). I'll correct my entry and try to be more careful in future.

And thanks for the info!

[paraxeni.livejournal.com]

No problem! Oh I forgot to add too that I do find it a bit harder to squirt if anything is inside me. Possibly because if something's in there it's harder to bear down! I've been told that the pressure of me getting ready to squirt feels like it is enough to break my gf's fingers heheh.

[coco1040.livejournal.com]

Squirting is a curious phenomenon for me. By comparison my most 'deep', moany, orgasms are combination clitoral/penetrative - my entire vagina and uterus pulse in a way that doesn't feel as through-and-through as with straight clitoral orgasms. I squirt only rarely [the first time was probably when I was 30 years old, a good 16 or 17 years after I began masturbating to orgasm], and only with a vibrator on my clit, and only as a 2nd orgasm [immediately following the first: I just keep going]. When I have that urge, I end up just holding the vibe against one particular spot on my clit. My uterus doesn't seem to contract as fully, but my entire pelvic floor and abdomen clench up, and I get out of my mind way more intensely than with other types of orgasm.

So to answer your questions directly:
1. It depends on the person
2. I don't *think* squirting is anatomy dependent: go for it!

[okamikaze.livejournal.com]

I have heard that people who squirt experience very powerful orgasms - in some cases more powerful than people who don't squirt.

That I don't know about. It's definitely a different sensation. It's powerful, yes, but I prefer the orgasm I get from vaginal/clitoral stimulation combined.


I have also heard that a lot of squirters prefer not to have anything inside them when this happens.

Sometimes having something inside prevents me from squirting far and instead I kind of...gush?

As for the anatomy vs. teaching yourself I have no idea. My bf had the idea to try making me squirt when I accidentally did it during PIV sex. So we figured since I'd done it before, he should be able to re-create the stimulation and make me do it harder. :)))

[jade488.livejournal.com]

I think I may be the odd person out here - but when I squirt, I honestly dont even know its going on. It doesnt feel like an orgasm or anything really, and truthfully I wouldnt have even known it was going on, save for the wet spot left behind, and my husband having seen it happen. I prefer vaginal/clitoral orgasm because atleast then I get a feeling of release, its different for everyone though - hope your experience is a pleasant one :)