A Strange Question...

[violet1995.livejournal.com]

Ok guys,
Here it is- I live with roommates, like share a room, and my bf lives with his parents, so they are okay letting me spend the night over.... but I get really loud during sex, like i can't control it, and if i do try to be quiet, i don't get the same pleasure out of the experience....like when I have an orgasm a let out sort of a scream... i tried putting a hand in my mouth, but then it throws off the orgasm.... i'm just embarrased his parents hear me, and being so loud i think they do... do any of you girls have a similar experience? any tricks? thanks:)

Comments

[archangelbeth]

If and only if you were comfortable with the idea of a bit of kink-play, you might look at some form of gag. (I would not suggest a home-made one, because the obvious "wad up a scarf" trick could trigger a gag-reflex, full-on choking, etc.) Something easily releasable, obviously (velcro, perhaps), that dampened the sound from start to finish. (I would also advise coming up with a "safe-gesture" to signal if something is wrong and you need him to stop RIGHT NOW, even before you could get the gag off.)

Other than that... Maybe try positions that are face-down or spooning, so you could yell into the pillow? Perhaps practice a different style of orgasm (which may not be as satisfying, at the least at first) of holding your breath?

Good luck!

[gemfyre.livejournal.com]

Turn the TV or radio up loudly. But that may give you away too. ;)

[x-hypatia-x.livejournal.com]

So, I think you're gonna have to learn to be quiet. I'm into kink-play, at least some ways, so for me, I sort of trained myself into thinking about how it's hot that I have to be quiet. That threw me off at first, but eventually I got used to it. I think if you stick with either being quiet or biting a pillow or something, in the future, it'll become easier and less distracting. Sorry I don't have any better suggestions. :( But honest, it only took about a dozen times or so for me to get adjusted.

[caterpillgry.livejournal.com]

Good suggestions above. I really think that it's important to try to be respectful of the other people in the house and muffle yourself as much as possible... when people overhear screams (as opposed to unavoidable possible sex noises) it's really making them unwilling participants in your sex life. I had a roommate who wouldn't shut up when her bf stayed over, and I felt really, really disrespected.

[sequence-fairy.livejournal.com]

I had to learn quiet when I lived in a dorm (hello paper thin walls) and in my second year apartment. However, now that my partner and I have our own place, I am no longer capable of quiet.

So, burying my face in his shoulder, biting a pillow/him/my knuckles, you know, whatever's handy...seems to deaden it a little. But damn, I love me some loud sexing.

If you're up for it and the weather is nice, find somewhere secluded outside and let it all out. It's really freeing!