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[foreverlost18.livejournal.com]

ok so i have a quick couple of questions.
1. is it possible to get pregnant when i had sex yesterday and start my period, say, tomorrow? even though i JUST had sex could one of those little guys have gotten in there and i be pregnant and not know till next month? i'm just really curious....any info is better than no info right?
2. i'm pretty sure i had a miscarriage last month. last month when i fianlly got my period it was super heavy, heavier than any of them i have ever had ever in my life and the cramps were so bad i couldn't get out of bed nomatter how hard i tried.. is it possible tha was a miscarriage or just a really bad period? yea ye ayea i know, i should see a doctor but i wanted to ask here too.
3. if that was a miscarriage, is there a certain amount of time your body takes before it lets you get pregnant again? i really really wanna be pregnant so that's why i'm asking.
thanks for any help you can give me!!

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[puttysan.livejournal.com]

Possible, yes. It is possible to get pregnant at any time. Likely? No.

It's possible it was just a heavy period, it's possible it was a miscarriage. With just that information, there is no way any of us could tell you for sure.

[foreverlost18.livejournal.com]

ok thanks!

[tequilajane.livejournal.com]

Wow..getting pregant at your age is a big step. I'm not even prepared at 26.

[foreverlost18.livejournal.com]

see, that's what a lot of people said to me too. but i know i'm ready. i'm kinda just that type i guess. but considering the times, 19 isnn't that bad of an age to be having kids. i mean there are 14 year olds having kids, not that i''m saying its bad, it's just really young.

i'm weird what can i say?

[uptheduff.livejournal.com]

if your cycle is say 8 days, and you ovulate on the middle day,t hen yes you could get pregnant! You period will wash all those little guys out, with no fertilisation happening. Usually 12 to 14 days into the middle of your cycle (depending it being at 28 day cycle) is the best time for fertilisation to occur. You will secret extra mucus at that time. There is plenty of information on the internet about ovulation and conception.
Also, regarding the miscarriage, I'm really sorry if that was the case, and as a previous poster said, it is just too difficult to diagnose, though, yes it is posible.
Your body is physically capable to become pregnant as soon as 2 weeks after a miscarrage. Though it is very unlikely that you will be able to carry to full term - the body is unlikely to be able to handle that. Most experts will say wait until you have had atleast one menstral cycle to begin trying again.

[foreverlost18.livejournal.com]

hm alright. makes sense. thanks

[uptheduff.livejournal.com]

I really hope that helped. I had a miscarriage in July, with my second pregnancy. I had a D&C and received alot of mixed messages afterwards. Most saying wait a while but some saying that effectively the D&C cleans out everything that a period would have done anyway, and that I should be able to get pregnant and maintain a healthy pregnancy.
As much as my heart said go for it, my body waited until after my preiod and I only found out yesterday that I am indeed pregagnt again. I wouldn;t take the risk of going through that again, and have attempted to do everything right.
If you have a regualar cycle, there are plenty of sites on the net that will explain ovulation and whne is the best time to try to conceive.
I agree, there are plenty of 26years olds out there who just are not mentally ready to have children yet, but in tern plenty of 19 year year olds who are. someone asked me once when I intended to have more children, I said not yet, the time isnt right. They replied, the time is never right, and thinking about that, they were so right, the time is never right but we all make the most of it. Start looking at some preconceptual care websites, they will give plenty of help from nuitrition to sex positions that may help with conceptions.
If you suspect you did however have a miscarriage give your body abit of time to heal, and please seek some medical help. There may be some residue left internally that may become infected and in turn hinder your chances for furture pregnanies.