I identify as queer, and you may, too (I prefer the word over bisexual because bisexual omits gender-nonconforming folks) but, firstly, it sounds like you may have a communication issue regarding your sex life.
Why are you masturbating while your partner is on the computer? Why isn't he sticking around to help? Does he know you don't orgasm? Could he pleasure you orally after, or use a vibrator on you after, or at least hold you and talk to you after, instead of being in the other room? Are there other things that you could add to your PIV sex routine that would make it better for you?
If you desire women, that's one thing, but if you're having bad sex, that's another. I'd advise seeing if you can resolve the bad sex in your relationship since you're satisfied with him as a caring and intelligent individual first, and then seeing where you need to go experimentation wise, after.
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Date: 2010-02-07 03:48 am (UTC)Why are you masturbating while your partner is on the computer? Why isn't he sticking around to help? Does he know you don't orgasm? Could he pleasure you orally after, or use a vibrator on you after, or at least hold you and talk to you after, instead of being in the other room? Are there other things that you could add to your PIV sex routine that would make it better for you?
If you desire women, that's one thing, but if you're having bad sex, that's another. I'd advise seeing if you can resolve the bad sex in your relationship since you're satisfied with him as a caring and intelligent individual first, and then seeing where you need to go experimentation wise, after.