hymen

[grlxxx.livejournal.com]

Last night I was drunk and ended up back at my house with my friend and things got hot... you know how it goes
anyways we never had sex, we just did everything else and when he was fingering me he was really rough and after he left i was bleeding and i woke up today and theres still a bit of blood coming out. I know I'm not on period but my question is: do you think he broke my hymen when he was fingering me?

Comments

[of-wings.livejournal.com]

It's a possiblity, but your hymen could have been previously broken without you ever noticing it- through masturbation, sports, tampon use, all the wears-and-tears of life. Sometimes though, during rough(er) sexual experiences, a woman's vaginal lining can be torn, which can cause some spotting. It's nothing to worry about. Usually the 'damage' is minor and will heal itself within a couple of days. I don't think you have anything to worry about- it's happened to be quite a number of times... and I'm sure we're not the only ones.

[star-drifter.livejournal.com]

I cant say anything more than the above poster said.

I haven't had sex yet either, and my hymen has been broken (over several fingering episodes). It's possible, but just as well it's possible your lining could have been torn by fingernails or whatnot.

Take care.

[katlynel.livejournal.com]

He probably tore it a little, but I wouldn't say it's "broken" completely. Mine tore gradually over the course of a year or so, and I bled after every fingering session for the year.