I'm really not too sure what to make of this.

[omystars.livejournal.com]

Not vagina-related, but could definitely be of interest to you keen community members:

http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive/stripcharge1.html

Quick synopsis: A stripper has had aggravated assault charges filed against her by a patron of the club she works at, due to a stream of breast milk hitting him in the face during a lap dance. The stripper had recently given birth, but did not think she was lactating at the time.

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[pillar.livejournal.com]

I'd be upset too if someone squirted any body fluids on me when receiving a lapdance. How would you feel if a male stripper accidently ejaculated on you?

I realize that not all women are aware of their bodies, but we are not talking accident, she squeezed her breast to make milk come out. By her saying, "Do you want to see this?", it's apparent that she knew something was going to happen. I don't know of anyone who appreciates unwanted body fluids on them, especially if it's not totally accidental. She squeezed her breast, it's not like it just dripped out, and she excused herself (which if that were the case, I'd be on her side). It would be the same if she squeezed her breast and wiped it on him.

[bellavita.livejournal.com]

it wasn't necessarily intentional. if your breasts are full of milk, it can squirt out by applying any pressure at all. and i mean quirt, not just drizzle. i admit it's a bit sketchy when she says she didn't think she was lactating anymore -- usually you can tell -- but from the information in the report, there's just not enough evidence to suggest it was intentional when it could just have easily been accidental.

and considering that the people who believe it was intentional are all males, who typically don't have much knowledge of the nature of a lactating breast, i'd say this accusation hardly merits a lawsuit. especially since the "victim" is fine -- it might be a different story had his eye been damaged or something, but really all he suffered was some embarrassment.

[crankygirlie.livejournal.com]

Heh, that's not how it happened, I'm sure.

It's a normal thing for strippers to say something like, 'you want some of this?' then fondle themselves, squeeze their own breasts, etc.

Obviously, she was holding her breasts as demonstration. 'This' was her boobs. Boobies full of milk will squirt with pressure like that.

I feel bad for her. How embarassing for her. I'm guessing she was not breastfeeding, and this probably surprised her.

That's NOT assault. :P That was an honest mistake. It was NOT acceptable, of course, and the manager should do something for him, but this guy should lose the suit because there were no damages. He was not assaulted, he was not injured.

What a jerk.

[katlynel.livejournal.com]

I used to dance, and I once did a two-girl dance for a patron with another dancer. She proceeded to leak breast milk all over my body during the dance. I wasn't too bothered and was able to hide the leakage, but the customer overheard her apologizing to me after the dance and asked her what it was about, and she told him she was lactating and had leaked on me. He promptly ignored her the rest of the evening and told me in thinly veiled comments how disgusted he was and how he'd never have gone anywhere near her if he'd known she was lactating.

Men tend to react violently negatively at the thought of a lactating stripper, probably precisely because it demonstrates that the woman is more than just a sex object and hence confronts them with the potential inappropriateness of their desire. They then channel the anger at themselves for getting a hard-on at some baby's momma into anger at the stripper for daring to present herself as an object of desire while lactating. I'm quite sure that's what was going on here.

[pillar.livejournal.com]

He might have been more upset regarding what diseases the woman could possibly have considering that a stream of her body fluid went in his eye and face? I think it's kinda unfair that we judge that his reaction was bad just because he's male and might have issues with sexualizing a mommy.

According to http://www.utmb.edu/utmbnews/news_briefs/AIDS_saliva.htm

"HIV-positive milk and semen are highly infectious, probably because these fluids contain white blood cells that are infected by HIV and the antibodies can’t get inside these cells to attack the virus."

Perhaps this is just my hypochondriac mind being very paranoid of disease, but however remote, for the possibility of contracting HIV, this is the reason I would be upset at her (not for it being breast milk).

[sooz.livejournal.com]

this is how i saw it too... i would of freaked out..

[katlynel.livejournal.com]

I still don't think that the possibility would make it constitute aggravated assault. Not unless she knew she had HIV and was squirting him intentionally.