I can feel something!

[tisha313.livejournal.com]

 I've been masterbating and climaxing via clitoral since I was about 5/6 and now I'm 24. And for the past year clitoral stimulation was just not as gratifying as it was during my childhood and early adolescence. After climaxing I felt like I needed something more but didn't know what. I started experiementing with my old vibrators (one for gspot) occassionally.

Then last night, I used my slimline vibrator and angled it upwards and tilted my hips and I felt PLEASURE. All of this time complaining about why I didn't feel anything during sex it was because of the angle. I had no idea. With my ex boyfriend he would just stick it in there and he would be hitting my rectum the entire time, I felt like I had to make a bowel movement during sex): Little did I know that he needed to angle himself upward for the sex to feel good to me at least. The area he was in has no sensation down there. I spent years stressing out over this so I am very happy to discover that someday when I meet the right guy I can expeirence pleasure during intercourse. It feels like really good pressure instead of like the  no sensation pressure i used to feel when i wasn't angling the dildos in the right area

Now, I can't seem to orgasm from penetration but maybe with the right partner I will. At least I am glad to know that I am capable of feeling something and understand what the big deal is about sex! When I was moving the vibrator in and out it felt pretty good so now I know why so many people do it all the time. I'll still masterbate via clitoral because I can orgasm that way. And my hand got really tired moving the dildo in and out

Comments

[melodic-lyrics.livejournal.com]

Ah, self-discovery, there's nothing quite like it! Congratulations on figuring out a little bit of what works for you and what doesn't. I know that I don't orgasm very often from penetration alone, but it's all about the angle. I think woman-on-top position usually works best, especially since it's easier to control depth/speed/angle.

[tisha313.livejournal.com]

yes it is about the angle. even when i was on top, the penis would still not be angled far up enough. it would go down towards my rectum

[melodic-lyrics.livejournal.com]

Good luck in the future with new partners, and your toys. Experimenting is half the fun, I think. :)

[tisha313.livejournal.com]

thank you!

[asunlitrose.livejournal.com]

The best way to get that angle (because I definitely know what you're speaking of!) is to put your legs up on your guy's shoulders when you're on your back. Gives the pelvis just enough tilt for me.

[mangofandango.livejournal.com]

Another way that works very well for me is to do PIV while spooning, basically - lying on our sides, me facing away from my partner, but with my body angled however is necessary to hit the right spot. Usually, this means me angling my upper body forward, away from my partner, or just arching my back. Sometimes, I can get the right spot while staying close, but it hasn't worked as well since I've been pregnant. In fact, very few positions work except spooning while leaning forward slightly right now. :)

[tisha313.livejournal.com]

I remember doing that position but my ex would still be penetrating me downward toward my rectum): i was afraid i was going to take a dump all over him

[tisha313.livejournal.com]

I remember doing that position but my ex would still be penetrating me downward toward my rectum): i was afraid i was going to take a dump all over him

[archangelbeth]

Remember that different guys have different erection angles, too! You may want to check out www.erectionphotos.com (not safe for work, but not porn, either), to see all the variety of angles and tilts that guys' penises can have. But now that you know where you've got the good nerves, you can assess a new guy's curve and angle and try positions that will put that angle and curve to work for you! Yay!

[tisha313.livejournal.com]

thank you! I'm so happy. I hope the next partner I have will be curved. I wish I knew this years ago

[https://users.livejournal.com/nomad----/]

Off topic, never had a orgasm via vagina but I thought I was the only one who touched myself at a young age and had orgasms, I never really asked anyone hah but I always thought I was.. weird. =P

That's sweet you found the right angle though!

[litttlecreature.livejournal.com]

ditto. i think i was 4 or 5 when i had my first orgasm, and i had no fuckin idea what had just happened to me.

[chiyo-no-saru.livejournal.com]

Just remember that lots and lots of women don't orgasm from penetration--in fact, the minority do, so it's totally normal and healthy to only be able to get off from clitoral stimulation! :)

[ecstasyforalice.livejournal.com]

I find if you put a pillow under your hips during (missionary-style) sex, it works wonders for hitting the right spot. :D