Guys Sex Noises

[randomtrend.livejournal.com]

Not vag related exactly, but how many of you have boyfriends who remain pretty silent during sex (aside from the heavy breathing)? I dated a guy once who made no noises at all, ever, and it drove me nuts. The guy I'm with now does these cute little groans and moans that get me going even more. I'm just curious about everyones different experiences, so share away! 

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[darkserena.livejournal.com]

My boyfriend is the silent-type. I mentioned that I wished he made some sort of noise so I knew what was going on, and he said past girlfriends have mentioned the same thing.

Then again he's said he once fell asleep while getting oral (not from me); he finds that sort of thing "relaxing" as he put it. So I guess being quiet is understandable in that light.

[lupinelullaby.livejournal.com]

Oh, it drives me crazy when my husband is quiet! Which is, unfortunately, a good portion of the time because he is incredibly self-conscious about anyone hearing him (we live in an apartment, and before that we lived with my parents).

It turns me on quite a bit when he does make noise. He's especially noisy in the car, when he knows no one can hear. I love it and wish it could be like that all the time!

[cherry1-3.livejournal.com]

my boyfriend tends to alternate from very quiet to even a little too talkative in bed.lol.his groans and moans also get me going and its like ah! just thinking about it turns me on.lol.

i cant stand the silent-type it just makes it so awkward.

[airenwoodmoon.livejournal.com]

I had one boyfriend who was so silent I was thrilled when I could make him gasp. The next one made all these fun little noises. I tend to favor a louder type- I like to know if I'm doing it right. ;)

[kissxbangxbangx.livejournal.com]

I'm female, but I'm one of the silent ones. I suppose I just learned not to make noise because I didn't want to be overheard when I was masturbating, so when I have sex, I have to force myself to make noises, if my partner likes it. I had an ex who complained about me being too quiet one day (my mother was in the next room!) and I felt really uncomfortable because I wasn't sure what to do. Some people just are naturally quiet in bed.

(Also, just a little note - note all of us in this community are attracted to men, many of us don't and won't ever have boyfriends!)

[randomtrend.livejournal.com]

I understand that not everyone in this community is attracted to men, and I didn't mean to single anybody out. I was just relating to personal experience. I'd like to hear absolutely anyones personal experiences as well, as long as their comfortable sharing them.

[randomtrend.livejournal.com]

urgh *they're* comfortable sharing them. I'm tired.

[kissxbangxbangx.livejournal.com]

It's okay, don't worry about it! I didn't mean to sound snappy, I just thought I'd put a little note there about it.

[tisha313.livejournal.com]

I'm the silent type and prefer a partner who is silent as well. I don't find it a turn on to have a guy making very loud moans and groans, it's not very masculine to me

[its-raining-jen.livejournal.com]

My boyfriend doesn't make noise, but it really turns me on when he lets out an occasional moan. Prr. I wish he'd be more vocal in bed.

[3goodtimes.livejournal.com]

More often than not, I've had very quiet male partners. The women I've dated were more vocal on the whole. Although I did date a guy who talked a lot during sex.

[paperispatient.livejournal.com]

The guys I've been with have always been much quieter than me, but I tend to the noisy side of loud. I love guy sex noises no matter if they're quiet little groans or more enthusiastic, I find it a huge turn-on.

[hiriel1804.livejournal.com]

My boyfriend is very quiet. I used to be too, probably a result of living at home with thin walls, I make a bit more noise now that we live by ourselves, but still not a lot. I don't mind one bit that he's quiet though. I think I'd find it weird if he did make a lot of noise.

[yeshailey.livejournal.com]

my boyfriend is pretty shy, but he'll surprise me with dirty talk now and again. and he'll definitely moan and groan a lot. i love that. i'd be weirded out of a guy didn't make any noise.

[righteousbean.livejournal.com]

My boyfriend doesn't groan or moan. He talks, though. It's hot.

[misfit4leaf.livejournal.com]

My boyfriend makes noises. I'm much louder than him though. He growls and stuff. It's pretty hot.

[sonarafaey.livejournal.com]

My husband is silent for the most part. I've learned how to identify other cues that he gives off during sex, such as his thrusting rhythm, facial expressions, and how his body positions shift and change. I can't hear it or feel it when he comes, but I can tell by his body language. I think it's pretty neat actually.

[spike0313.livejournal.com]

my boyfriend really only makes noises when I go down on him. Oh my jebus is that ever hot. During sex he mostly just talks, telling me how hot I am :3
I wish he would make more noise when we had sex... suuuch a turn on.
I guess I make up for his lack of noise with my loudness

[glass-houses.livejournal.com]

My guy used to be much quieter until I came along. I'm loud and love when he makes noises.

[licoricesnocone.livejournal.com]

My boyfriend is usually pretty quiet, so win the occasional moan or sigh slips out it turns me on so very much.

[arctowardthesun.livejournal.com]

My partner is incredibly silent unless i'm going down on him.

[syntheticdeath.livejournal.com]

Most of my time my boyfriend is quiet, due to the fact that when we do it, there's always someone else that is home so we have to be silent. He has a hard time being loud when we're alone, but when he gets going, it gets very loud and it drives me insane (in a good way, of course).

[violet-tigress1.livejournal.com]

Most guys I've been with were fairly quiet. It drives me nuts nuts when they don't at least make some sound that I can hear & understand. I like to knoow if I am pleasing them.

[ifihadmoretime.livejournal.com]

The guy who took my virginity puffed and panted his way through the deed and positively yelled at the climax. Slightly overdramatic, I thought, but what did I know?

[actorgrl04.livejournal.com]

My guy makes some noices. He actually talks dirty a lot when we do it and i can hear him moan a lot when he ejaculates, at first i thought it was funny and always wanted to laugh, because I am pretty quiet when I do it. lol

[gipsy-queen.livejournal.com]

It drives me bonkers! I never know when he's enjoying himself or even if he doesn't like what I'm doing. It's almost like sh***ing a stuffed dummy sometimes!

[torsornin.livejournal.com]

oh my BF is pretty quiet, we will talk and stuff, and only occasionally will he make a noise - when he does it is such a turn on!

every now and then he will sigh after a bj or sex.. I love that :)

I used to be really quiet, he kept encouraging me to be louder lol now I have no qualms about making noise. I wish he would be a little more vocal though

[foureyedgirl.livejournal.com]

My ex was always quiet. Hardly ever made a sound..even when he came, it was just, "I'm gonna come" and that was it.

[kkatie.livejournal.com]

Ohhh he is a silent type. I wish he would make more noise. I've told him that. BUT recently he's been talking dirty which is fun and exciting. Still, I wish I didn't have to depend on his eyes and mouth to know that he's feeling pleasure.

[cute-kitty.livejournal.com]

Well, I've never had full blown penetrative sex (yet), but I can tell you that I am the loud one between my bf and I. I full out moan from his touch, but he mainly just sighs and lets out an occasional grunt when I pleasure him. The noises he does make are hot, but still... I'd like it louder!

[getsinyoureyes.livejournal.com]

During sex my SO is pretty quiet, but when I give him hand jobs or blow jobs he's suddenly very vocal. I asked him about it and he said he's more quiet during sex because he has to concentrate on how our bodies are moving and making it as good as possible for me. Sometimes I wish he made noises during sex, though because it's nice to get that auditory confirmation that he enjoys it.

[glass-pyx.livejournal.com]

My guy tends to exhale heavily when he cums, but that's really it--I'm pretty loud when I'm in a space where I can be. He does like to talk to me, but half the time it's us checking if someone is hurt because the wall is next to the bed or something like that. I wish sometimes that he would let me know vocally if things are going well, but it's just not his thing.

[red-beckie.livejournal.com]

My bf makes the most delicious low noises, occasionally talks to me, little grunts/moans that let me know something is feeling good, but he's never LOUD. Most of the time, its just his heavy breathing, because we're living at his dad's house right now and there aren't many times when we have the house to ourselves, but when we do, hes much more vocal. I actually like the slightly quieter thing better, because my ex was just...positively over-the-top theatrical, and sometimes his loudness made me giggle on the inside. I think the absolute silence thing would drive me crazy though.

[xevv.livejournal.com]

My boyfriend is very vocal when he's enjoying himself---no talking, generally, but a lot of breathy moans and gasps; slightly effeminate but that's the way I like it. When he comes his whole body jerks with each contraction, and usually then he'll make a couple of low groans. If the orgasm is really good he'll scream a little bit.

[weightofourlove.livejournal.com]

Yes, my boyfriend is the silent type, and it drives me NUTS. I keep asking him to make some noise and give me feedback during sex that he likes it, but he says that it would be "fake". I don't want him to go all out with porno moans and screams, but SOMETHING would be nice. It bugs me. But hey, other things in the relationship are great, so I try not to focus on the downsides. :X