Libido tips?

[halo927.livejournal.com]

I'm coming off of HBC after 10 years and my libido is coming back, but slowly... i would like to do whatever i can to help it along. any ideas? herbal remedies? exercises? magic spells?

Comments

[archangelbeth]

Masturbation! Remind your body that hey, this feels good! Set aside some time for communing with your handheld showerhead or vibe (orgasm optional, though of course useful), on a deliberate schedule if necessary, and hopefully have some relaxing recreation.

Reading sexy fiction (or whatever) may also be useful. I have been known to window-shop online sextoy sites. >_>

Kegels (Kegals? My spellchecker is clueless.) may also be useful -- they tone the muscles in the pelvic area, and can make arousal easier. You may also want to get a heavy metal kegal/ben-wa ball thing to tuck up there vaginally and walk around; the claim is that your muscles will subconsciously clamp around them and you'll be having a constant workout.

General exercise is unlikely to hurt, if taken in moderation; good diet is always good, etc. Getting sensual stuff for the bath or silky nightgowns or whatever makes you feel good -- always good!

[no1spromqueen.livejournal.com]

vigorous excercise! it pumps testosterone in your body and testosterone helps you feel sexay!

[4pawzonthefloor.livejournal.com]

I'll back the sexy fiction. Find something that is your taste and go with it. The internet can be a source for this (as well as for mind breaking stuff) but bookstores work great too.

Watching romances or some movie where I really just admire the pants off the guy (or I wish I could) helps too. Hubby reaps benefits. Win win!