sex negative parent
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vaginapaginaI was talking to my younger brother today (he's 19 and i'm 23) and we were having a conversation about our family.
He's one of the few people that i can talk to, honestly, and I think he's growing up to be a great guy. He's female sensitive and totally enlightened, I'd be his friend even if he wasn't my brother. I think we rub off on each other in that sense.
And there was something our mother used to say that scarred us both for life. As in, we both remember and it still find it repulsive and totally against out our relationship ideology.
When my mom would talk about anyone that was pregnant (and she felt shouldn't be), an example would be a teen mother, she would always say they "shit out a baby," or "they might as well just shit out another baby."
Why would anyone think that is okay to say? We put both of our minds together, and, we still can't understand where she was coming from.
Does anyone else have horribly sex negative parents, if so, how did that affect your adult life?
He's one of the few people that i can talk to, honestly, and I think he's growing up to be a great guy. He's female sensitive and totally enlightened, I'd be his friend even if he wasn't my brother. I think we rub off on each other in that sense.
And there was something our mother used to say that scarred us both for life. As in, we both remember and it still find it repulsive and totally against out our relationship ideology.
When my mom would talk about anyone that was pregnant (and she felt shouldn't be), an example would be a teen mother, she would always say they "shit out a baby," or "they might as well just shit out another baby."
Why would anyone think that is okay to say? We put both of our minds together, and, we still can't understand where she was coming from.
Does anyone else have horribly sex negative parents, if so, how did that affect your adult life?
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Date: 2008-10-30 04:22 am (UTC)I am not sex negative as I have sex with my fiance, but whenever I see a 14 year old girl pushing a baby stroller while texting on her sidekick and wearing a "this is why im hot" shirt I barf a little inside. yuck.