IUD Insertion with Abortion?
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Hey, so a couple weeks ago I had asked about using an IUD as emergency contraception (here). In the end, I went with Plan B, despite already having had the IUD consultation. So now, I'm roughly 75% sure I got knocked up. After counting back the days, I'm fairly sure I had already ovulated before taking the Plan B (fuck). Also, I had very, very light spotting today, 12 days after the sex in question--possible implantation bleeding. But, I can't pee on the stick until Sunday*, which will be five days before my missed period. My life is pretty kickass right now, and kids just aren't in the cards at the moment (even though I want an army of them... years from now). My question is this: If the test turns up positive and I schedule a surgical abortion, would the doctor, likely at Planned Parenthood, be able to insert a Mirena during the same visit? Have any of you done this, and if so, were there any negative side effects from messing with your uterus so much at one time? Mostly I'm looking for experiences, especially at Planned Parenthood.
Thanks, yo.
And to vent a bit, feel free to skip: SHIT. I only have sex like twice a year, just to make sure that my vulvodynia/vaginismus combo of doom didn't magically disappear! It didn't, by the way, so if there's some fetus who's decided to hang out in me for awhile, it's not even like I got good sex out of the deal. WTF, how did I let this happen? I seriously hope they'll give me an IUD, I don't want to be in this situation EVAR again, plus, if some old white dude decides to take away birth control, I want something firmly planted in my uterus that they will literally have to rip out of me. Also, can I rent a friend to come with me to the appointment? I'm all alone in a new city and all I have to say is :( Listen to me whine, vagpag!
(edited for weird typos and then again because I post too soon, always.)
*edit again: I just opened the package and it says FOUR days on the inner instructions and FIVE days on the outer packaging. Lies, I say to you, outer packaging. Lies.
Thanks, yo.
And to vent a bit, feel free to skip: SHIT. I only have sex like twice a year, just to make sure that my vulvodynia/vaginismus combo of doom didn't magically disappear! It didn't, by the way, so if there's some fetus who's decided to hang out in me for awhile, it's not even like I got good sex out of the deal. WTF, how did I let this happen? I seriously hope they'll give me an IUD, I don't want to be in this situation EVAR again, plus, if some old white dude decides to take away birth control, I want something firmly planted in my uterus that they will literally have to rip out of me. Also, can I rent a friend to come with me to the appointment? I'm all alone in a new city and all I have to say is :( Listen to me whine, vagpag!
(edited for weird typos and then again because I post too soon, always.)
*edit again: I just opened the package and it says FOUR days on the inner instructions and FIVE days on the outer packaging. Lies, I say to you, outer packaging. Lies.
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Date: 2008-09-05 03:32 am (UTC)hell yeah! i will be more than pleased to squeeze out my first kid in 5 years... but not a moment until then. i am terrified that at the rate this country is going, i may not have many choices soon. hence my new mirena, which is seriously amazing. i am all set for 5 years, no matter what crazy laws are passed.
oh, and ps - not only was i allowed to bring my guy with me for my consultation, but he was also allowed to come in for the actual procedure.
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Date: 2008-09-05 04:02 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-09-05 03:55 am (UTC)Anyway -- the long story short is that when pregnancy tests say "first day of your missed period," what they really mean is days past ovulation, or DPO. Most pregnancy tests can reliably detect a pregnancy by 14 DPO, and some of the more sensitive ones can detect pregnancy starting at 10 DPO, or roughly five days before a missed period. However, those tests are only about 60% accurate at 10 DPO.
Out of curiosity, why are you fairly sure you ovulated, and how are you charting an expected period? Are you monitoring fertility signs, or is it only based on dates?
Looking at your timeline you give here, if your next expected period isn't for another seven days, and it's 12 days after sex already, then that would strongly suggest that you hadn't ovulated on the date of the sex in question -- 19 days is very long for a luteal phase. Not impossible I suppose, but at any rate it would be unusually long -- the normal luteal phase range is 12-16 days.
That said, of course it's possible to have a shorter follicular phase and have ovulated on the date in question. (In which case, your period would be theoretically due sooner than five days from now, but as mentioned above that's sort of irrelevant because pregnancy tests aren't based on period dates, but DPO.)
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Date: 2008-09-05 03:58 am (UTC)I'm going to go ahead and put $20 on this bleeding being some breakthrough bleeding due to the double dose of hormonal birth control and Plan B.
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Date: 2008-09-05 04:01 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-09-05 04:10 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-09-05 04:32 am (UTC)If you weren't on hormonal birth control, it'd be possible that ovulation would have occured on Cycle Day 10, though not necessarily probable unless you knew it for a fact via fertility-sign monitoring.
Cycle day 10 is often within the fertile window (within 5-7 days of ovulation) and can be an ovulation day, but I wouldn't automatically assume it was, unless I was actively monitoring my fertility signs.
But -- and this is a big "but" -- when you're on hormonal birth control, dates and soforth are irrelevant. Breakthrough ovulation, if it occurs due to improper pill usage, does not necessarily occur when it "should" occur if you weren't on the pill. It basically happens whenever the ovaries manage to squeeze enough time in to ovulate, and the cervical mucous (which is thickened on HBC, preventing sperm from entering) fails to stay thick.
Missing two pills in a row, especially in the first week, is certainly a bigger risk than missing only one pill, and usually back-up is recommended for seven days. But it still doesn't necessarily mean that you were likely to be ovulating, just that it would be more possible than if you hadn't.
Remember that even with "typical use," which includes stuff like this, the pill is 94% effective over the course of a year.
Really, I don't want to say "yes" or "no" to anything (though I guess I kinda did above when I bet $20), but what I'm hoping to get at is that I wouldn't assume anything one way or the other just yet.
You didn't have optimal protection when you had sex, but you also didn't necessarily have zero protection, and taking Plan B could well have occured prior to ovulation even if an ovulation had been in the cards due to missed pills.
So honestly, I guess my advice is to hang in until it's been 14 days after the sex in question (so Saturday) and test then. It will likely be accurate.
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Date: 2008-09-05 04:37 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-09-05 04:40 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-09-05 04:36 am (UTC)I totally sympathize with your 'old white dude' logic. When I think of how many people could suffer because someone decided to force their personal beliefs into law...it's just...grrr. It's horrifying and rage inducing all at once.
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Date: 2008-09-05 04:38 am (UTC)I can't say how likely it is that any provider will or won't do this, but the sources I'm finding do say that it's safe:
While there is an increased rate of expulsion if it's placed post-abortion (even more so after a 2nd trimester abortion, but that doesn't seem likely to apply here), but practically speaking, that looks to be the biggest issue.
I suspect, though, that individual providers might have their own personal preferences. (Health care professionals have pretty varied opinions and practices with IUDs in general, to the extent that it's tough to predict what any one person will want to do.) Should the time come when you need to schedule an abortion, your best bet might be asking the clinic directly. But it definitely sounds to me like it would be worth it to ask.
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Date: 2008-09-05 12:56 pm (UTC)Also, of course you can't know exactly right now, but it sounds pretty unlikely that you've got foetus growing, what with the pill being in your body and taking Plan B. I got funny bleeding for like two months after I took the morning-after pill.
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Date: 2008-09-05 06:44 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-09-05 01:06 pm (UTC)as for the iud, i worked at pphood for a year, and normally after a surgical AB, NPs/docs recommend not inserting anything into the vagina for 7-10 days after a procedure. however, during the follow up appointment, am IUD could be inserted if the woman wanted one. in the interim, they could leave with the pill if they wanted, but most women i spoke with were going to abstain from sex for a little while. i hope this helps!
also, plan b also has a phone number you can call for questions - 1-800-NOT-2-LATE
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Date: 2008-09-06 12:38 am (UTC)Do you know if yours is aggrivated by hormones? If it's aggrivated by hormones you might want to get the just plain copper one.
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Date: 2008-09-06 12:53 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-09-06 01:00 am (UTC)It's weird cuz my elder sister is just perfectly fine with it, but we know my mom got messed up by HBC when she tried it for a few months too.
If you know you're not sensitive to hormones then I guess a hormonal IUD would be alright. Then you never have to worry about condoms or anything ever again. For 5-10 years. But then you still gotta worry about the actual insertion dealie. That sounds so hard because by nature they'd have to hold you open somehow.