a little freaked out here...

[kittie12.livejournal.com]

So i'm a little freaked out here. I have not had sex in about 2 years and i recently started masturbating because I'll probably have sex again sometime soon and I don't want to be all gross or something when the time comes (lol).

And i noticed that when I did, upon closer inspection I think pee was squirting out of me (so gross, i know!). I'm really concerned and freaking out about this because i don't want this to happen during foreplay. Does anyone know what is up with this!?!?!?!? i'm starting to flip out here

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[mysticalmarie00.livejournal.com]

I think you are talking about squirting...it's normal. All women can do it! Look it up hun!! You are fine!

[starpolish.livejournal.com]

Actually, not all women can do it. It is totally normal, though.

[cheesybunny.livejournal.com]

I'd guess that a lot of women could do it if they knew how and tried though...

[frolicnaked.livejournal.com]

Though there are definitely some (well, at least one... me) who've read up on how and have tried and can't.

[sooz.livejournal.com]

i still try all the time.. once i dribbled.. but no squirting.

[sutaseiu.livejournal.com]

To add to this, does it feel like urine? I don't know much about it all, but for me, it's a different kind of liquid. Almost drier.

[kittie12.livejournal.com]

Thanks for the confidence boost here. lol

No, I haven't had to pee at all. I usually go before I shower and this has happened after I showered, so I'd say I'm good in that department. I also have no control over it at all, and like you said, it is pretty sudden. I guess what i'm mixed up on is why its coming out of that hole? (or at least I think it is) I didn't expect that at all. So, what is this and where exactly is it coming from? The logistics, if thats the right word, of this is not making any since to me! ha ha!

[kittie12.livejournal.com]

thanks this makes me feel 100% better :)

[kittie12.livejournal.com]

So anyways, this actually happened again today and I took the advice of the wonderful ladies on here and just went with it. After reading up on this I've got a better idea of whats up with my body, which is almost embarrassing to admit. Ha ha!

And I can tell that it is a case of a gland filling and releasing, since it comes and goes. However, when this happens I don't orgasm. Actually, I never have before. (I'm one of those people who can by just thinking about it, to further complicate things!)

So although I feel like less of a freak about this ordeal, I'm still wondering why this happens without orgasm and why there is so much of it. We're talking 'clean up in aisle 4' kinda thing. Once it happens to that, eh, magnitude, there isn't nearly as much but it does continue to happen.

Although I do feel a little better now that I know whats going on, I'm still on the fence about it. I'm not sure that I'm going to be comfortable when the time comes. I have never really had any generous amount foreplay with my ex boyfriends, which may also explain why I've never orgasmed, so the thought of this happening with my guy still has me a tad bit upset. I'm actually thinking about offering an explanation to him before my pants even hit the floor.

[kittie12.livejournal.com]

Awww... thanks! You are all so wonderful here :D

[sutaseiu.livejournal.com]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Skene%27s_gland The image there shows you exactly where it's coming from. Not exactly the urethra, but close.

[ladykorinna.livejournal.com]

It sounds like female ejaculation, but ditto what gothicaleiav says.
I tend to "squirt" quite a bit (amount-wise), and it bothered me a lot at first. Don't worry, and don't be embarrassed. It's perfectly normal. If you smell it, it doesn't smell a thing like urine, and it feels damn good if you just relax and let it happen. Just be sure to have a towel under you or you might end up with a wet spot on your sheets ;P

[kittie12.livejournal.com]

So when you say quite a bit of an amount, are we talking its running out of you? (I posted my aweful example a couple threads up there.) I'm so glad everyone is telling me this is normal, but I think its going to take some getting used to LOL :)

[ladykorinna.livejournal.com]

It definitely squirts out. Lol..
It will go rhythmically, with the orgasm contraction-dealies. It will happen maybe three times, with about enough fluid to fill a shot glass or two, depending on how horny I am. I always put a towel under me to keep my sheets dry, because it will leave a palm sized (sometimes bigger) wet spot.

Seriously though.. smell it. That's the only way I could convince myself I wasn't peeing at first. After I realized that, I was fine and comfortable with it. My man loves making me squirt, by the way ;)

[kittie12.livejournal.com]

Yeah, I can relate to the 2 shot glasses. Damn, I can't believe I've never figured this out before. I feel so dumb! Ha ha... Thanks :D You saved my sanity!

[kragey.livejournal.com]

Everybody else has already taken the words right out of my mouth! But just to add a little more: a lot of men that I know are REALLY turned on by female ejaculation, so don't worry too much. =)

If you haven't had ANY kind of penetration for 2 years, you might want to use a vibe or your fingers every once in a while to get back in to the groove of things.

[kittie12.livejournal.com]

Thank god! hahahhahaha I hope I don't have trouble finding those guys who are turned on by this :)