Stupid, stupid boy...

[individuality86.livejournal.com]

Since my last post, I ended up telling my b/f about the possibiliy of the both of us passing some kind of infection back and forth, since something always goes wrong with me "down there" every time we have sex. Can you BELIEVE that he doesn't wanna go to the doctor with me? Something about him not wanting to hear any bad news. Ugh! THEN he had the nerve to compare me to his ex, saying "How come my ex never had all of these problems?" Um, MAYBE BECAUSE WE'RE TWO DIFFERENT PEOPLE, YOU IDIOT!!! I'm going to the doctor soon [for what I think is B.V...AGAIN...], but I just felt the need to rant about that. Wasn't he being a tad bit insensitive for saying that to me?! :-

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[queensugar.livejournal.com]

Something about him not wanting to hear any bad news

Amazingly, this is really, really common. So many people avoid medical treatment when they know that something is wrong because they do not want to hear the bad news; they may realize it's illogical, but there's definitely this thing that happens to people where they don't want to hear a diagnosis, even if it means risking their health.

It definitely wasn't particularly sensitive to you (especially that last bit). It sounds to me like he's just scared that something might be amiss with his bits and would rather go on not knowing. Good luck.