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[jsj4degrees.livejournal.com]

ok first of all, i've been tested, not pregnant, not std's, etc.

oh and hello all, i'm new, my name is jasmine.

anyways, well i'd been hooking up with this guy pretty frequently. he's pretty well endowed-for me at least, and when we'd hook up we'd drink and take pills, whatever. so when we'd have sex, i'd be really relaxed and not numb...but well i guess just really relaxed.

ok, so the last time we hooked up i was totally sober, and got to appreciate how large he was. and it hurt, so we had to take it slow. and my stomach all the sudden started to cramp horribly and he had to pull out. so i was ok and we tried again...same thing happened. we couldn't even continue.

ok so now, i've not hooked up with him in about two weeks, or anyone else for that matter. but i do masturbate. and after every orgasm i get, i have these horrible cramps. like menstral cramps, but the worst ones i've ever experienced in my life. and they last maybe a half hour or so. no kidding. last night i had to take some pain meds i'd been given for my back, and soak in a hot hot bath so it would stop.

it's just so bizzare. another thing, i'll move or cough or sneeze sometimes, and get these horrible sharp pains, like sometihng is ripping inside me. it's in my lower stomach, and i asked the dr. at the health department here locally (because i can't afford to go to a gyeno), and she said it's all my intestines, gas, etc. but lately with the other pains i've been having, these have been worse too. the other day i was laying on the couch and stood up, and doubled over, clutching my stomach it hurt so bad.

i know i might should go to a doctor, but i don't want to be like "well, everytime i masturbate it hurts" or something weird like that, hah.

also, this odor lately. maybe because i've gained weight? who knows. i'm trying to lose, but god help me, it's not working well. but yea, it's not a uti or yeast infection or anything like that. just this odor, no matter how clean i try to be.

anyways, do you ladies have any ideas?

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[pretty492.livejournal.com]

The doctor is probably right about it being intestinal/gas BUT why does it hurt so much now! right? Don't be afraid to shop around for a doctor until you find the right one. And I've seriously been there with the weird questions/descriptions. Without knowing what it was beforehand I described menstruating flesh to my obgyn, talk about tmi.

[jsj4degrees.livejournal.com]

yea, it's hurt on and off bad like that. but if i'm not having gas, i wonder why she woudl tell me it is gas. because if i'm gassy, hah, i don't feel that way, and the pain doesn't follow with me being gassy...so it makes no sense to me. but who knows.

[pretty492.livejournal.com]

I have endometriosis, whenever I have gas I have pain, sometimes if I'm in just the right position and I sneeze I have pain, if I stretch wrong I have pain, if I don't pee before bed I have morning pain, if I can't poo I have pain, if I have sex but don't orgasm I have pain... My doctor says it's because the endo has created a sort of webbing inside me. The intention was to go in laproscopically and lazer as much out as he could but I ran out of insurance.
It's not the same pain as the cramping when you're on your period though, it's a bit different, more achey sort of like, like a viciously stubbed toe.

[jsj4degrees.livejournal.com]

my mother has endometriosis.

the pain i have, it's like if i move wrong or wahtever like you said, it's like something inside of me is tearing. it only lasts a few minutes at most, but it's a horrible pain. if i turn in bed wrong, sneeze, whatever. and it's so sharp and deep. it hurts horribly.

[pretty492.livejournal.com]

If you're related to someone one with endo you're a third more likely to have it than the average woman. I think the numbers are currently at one in ten. It's worth it to have it checked out, track your cycle for a while, really take a look at what you're menstruating, make sure it's all blood and clots and no flesh, at what point in your cycle are you prone to having diarriah, etc.

[jsj4degrees.livejournal.com]

what od you mean, flesh?

[pretty492.livejournal.com]

I mean flesh. It feels(if you touch/smoosh it) like when you accidently bite a chunk out of the inside of your cheek. It's um, strand-like, like raw chicken sort of.

[loonylupinlover.livejournal.com]

I've found that I can be two kinds of gassy: one where I fart like crazy, and one where the gas is all built up inside and for whatever reason I can't get it to escape, not by farting or belching. And the second kind can be extremely painful, because I can't fart.

[alwaysamommy.livejournal.com]

Sounds like BV to me.

[jsj4degrees.livejournal.com]

well what's BV

[crazyveigh.livejournal.com]

http://health.yahoo.com/topic/women/overview/article/healthwise/hw53099

I had it & kept getting tested and tested and tested w/ nothing ever showing up! Sex hurt & sometimes I would bleed afterwards. The odor for me was not "fishy" but more like ammonia. You can just go get tested again & mention that you think you might have BV and they will know then to look out for it. Probably just treat you assuming you do; you'll just take a few pills & then a week later, you'll be fine again! :)

[jsj4degrees.livejournal.com]

mine is like, well when i touch myself or whatever, it's like an onion smell on my fingers, ya know, like after you chop an onion...really odd

[crazyveigh.livejournal.com]

heh, maybe it's normal, when my boyfriend chops onions, sometimes he'll be a punk and rub his fingers in my face & say, "it smells like p*ssy" and I'm like, "you're crazy" cuz I've never smelled like onions but I guess some people do? Maybe it's just your hormones being crazy making ya smell different? It could just be weird & random?

the pain though... I dunno.. It could be BV, or maybe something like fibriods or even endometriosis? you ever take those little green gas pills? I don't know; just thinking of things to help. When I had BV, I had went to the health department numerous times; they'd give me stupid explanations saying it was from going off the depo or that it was my period and I didn't know it.. crazy things and then one day I went back and the right doctor was there & I haven't had any problems since! so.. good luck! :)

[alwaysamommy.livejournal.com]

bacterial vaginosis