I usually get an hour to 3 hours (or more, sometimes!) of "foreplay". To be honest, actual intercourse is my least favorite part of sex, and only lasts as long as it takes to get him off. I can't imagine taking less time; my partner is extremely well endowed and even with that much foreplay sex still hurts. My partner and I are pretty heavily into BDSM, with me topping my partner, so there's usually a lot to do before intercourse ever happens. Enjoy foreplay! And indeed, I and most women I know only use intercourse as another means of clitoral stimulation; by ourselves we usually focus on the clitoris to the exclusion of all else. Besides that, I would listen to what the others here are saying, it's all good advice I think.
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Date: 2007-09-23 05:24 pm (UTC)