Patience is probably the most important thing -- it will get better, when you're very comfortable with each other and know what you both like! And talk about it. Try to explain (gently, not accusingly) what it is that you'd like to do. Sharing fantasies with each other can be fun -- you can tell him a sexy story, detailing all the things you'd love him to do for you. That's both hot and educational, heh.
You might just need a bit more time to be able to relax properly together. Good luck!
(yes BC is free on the NHS -- no prescription charges or anything)
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Date: 2007-08-13 11:10 pm (UTC)You might just need a bit more time to be able to relax properly together. Good luck!
(yes BC is free on the NHS -- no prescription charges or anything)