(( VaginaPagina ))

To be honest, I was 14 when I lost my virginity and because I didn't drive, I had to wait a few weeks to have sex again anyhow, but I would definitely wait it out and find other ways to have intimacy if I had to deal with it now. You don't want more tears because eventually it is going to put stress on your sex life... not to mention hurt like hell. If it isn't healed up in a few more days, I would go see a doctor. I don't want to scare you and I have no idea how bad your tear is, but a lot of times when the perenium tears during childbirth, a doctor will stitch it. It's probably not torn nearly that bad but it wouldn't hurt to get it checked.