[Anonymous Post] Questions about sex

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Today I was having sex in the shower for the first time. I usually pee in the shower when I shower, but I didn't this time because I thought it would be gross for my partner. Anyway, we were doing various things to each other before we got to the sex and I actually had the most amazing intense orgasm and I peed. I'm pretty sure it was pee. This has never ever happened to me before (and my partner is awesome and was totally cool with it) but I'm just curious how common it is? It was an orgasm unlike I've ever had before, so I wonder if it was from whatever he was doing down there, and I would have peed if we were in bed, or was it because my bladder knows it can relax a little more in the shower? How can I tell the difference between pee and female ejaculate? And while I'm at it, how do I know if I can ejaculate, and is that something I can learn?

Also, can an orgasm or touching something make you poo? Another time he was doing something down there and I was afraid I was doing to poo! But I didn't.

Also, he is my first penis-in-vagina sex partner in about 6 years, and when he was inside me, I found it hard to breathe and I can't quite explain the feeling, but made my stomach feel kind of funny, like I almost gagged or something at one point? NOT IN A BAD WAY... It never hurt like he was hitting my cervix (I'm pretty sure I've hit my cervix with other things and that is more of a sharp pain, wheras this was more of a sensation, maybe also a little like butterflies in the stomach?). The feeling was great, but it was just so bizarre, I don't think I would have thought it would feel like that! Has anyone else experienced that?

Thanks for your help!

Comments

[alwaysamommy.livejournal.com]

The first part of your question sounds like female ejaculation. Pee feels like more of a release. Ejaculate just comes out as you orgasm. I did accidentally pee on a partner at one time. In hindsight, he had it coming. Anyway, while I couldn't control it at first, I could definitely tell the difference.
I don't think you would actually poo but if he hits your bowel with his penis, the pressure would feel that way. Sometimes I pass gas when my bowel gets bumped.
The only experience I've had with that gaggy feeling was when I had a partner with a large penis and we were just starting to have sex. After a couple of times, that feeling went away and it just felt like normal sex. I didn't mind the gaggy feeling either but I seemed to cramp up from it later so I was glad it didn't go on every time we had sex.

[untstuntstgirl.livejournal.com]

I get the gaggy feeling, too, when my boyfriend is deeper inside, and/or when I'm slightly less aroused. And I feel crampy later...sometimes it's so bad, all I can do afterword is curl up in a ball and shut my eyes. It always makes my boyfriend worry his head off about me.

[silverwing26.livejournal.com]

I agree with shaky_girl. It sounds like female ejaculation too me too. I have only had it happen to me once. But it deffinately feels different when you pee.

[circonia.livejournal.com]

I can identify with your last question. After having sex for the first time in two years[just this spring], I had the same sensation you've just described. It didn't help that my partner liked to, his words, "go deep and hard."

Fortunately, I was studying anatomy at the time, and I found the cervix is intricately connected to the hypogastric plexus, meaning it's connected to your intestines & your stomach. So sometimes your cervix gets an impressive sensation/stimulation of some sort and your gastric system will react to it, because of the connection there. It was pretty crazy in my case, since there were times I'd get dizzy or so sick I couldn't even get up and go to my eight am class, but then again I finally had a good excuse other than, "I just wanted to sleep in."


Thank Goddess I didn't have to ask my anatomy prof or my doc that. But yes, I've experienced it, and believe it it goes away over time. I eventually developed immunity to it, and now I love it. Hopefully, you'll come to those same results. Good luck!

And one more thing-first question, can't say I've experienced it, but it sounds like female ejaculation to me too. Usually liquid that squirts out of your vagina or rather, paraurethral glands at the time of orgasm is just that, and if the liquid didn't have an odor, chances are it's definitely it. I wish you luck with another adventure like that--I've heard they're kickass.

[insert-emo-sn.livejournal.com]

At my gynecologist visit last week (my first ever), while my doctor was performing my exam, she had a finger in my vagina and pressed up and I felt like I had to pee (she told me she was pressing on my bladder), and pressed down and I felt like I had to poo (she told me she was pressing on my anus). He was probably just pressing down on your bottom vaginal wall and you felt it in your anus.

[t-marshmallow.livejournal.com]

That's pretty similar to what happened to me when i saw my gyno.

Only, when she had stuck her fingers and the tongs for the pap smear in, i swear, i was going to pass gas, and i was trying so hard to hold it in! lol!

[sakichirox.livejournal.com]

That is definitely not pee. You just had an orgasm where you came. I get those sometimes and they are amazing. They leave me all shaky for hours afterwards. He must have been hitting your G-Spot. You can stimulate it by hand and come that way but it's not as intense as intercourse + G.

It does have trace amounts of urea (pee) in the fluid but that's only because you come through your urethra. Good luck with those orgasms. They are amazing.

[sakichirox.livejournal.com]

nope. Men come through through their urethras and so do women.