That does, that helps a lot! I'm really glad I got such a response, and that it sounds like I'm NOT abnormal. It makes me feel a lot better, and a lot more optimistic about just trying different things. Before I just kinda felt like I had to "deal" with it. I usually have a very healthy libido, and we usually have sex every other day if not every day. But I think I heard something about that too, with women becoming less sensitive or something. Doing Kegals is the strengthening of the PC muscles right? Do you know how to do it? I just know that it can be done...haha... Sometimes I just try to sit and clench them and unclench just in case that helps. I've heard the same thing with the vibrators, so I've pretty much ruled those out for now. But I'm not really against toys I guess, I just haven't used them much. Perhaps I'll have to go shopping, haha... Thank you so much for responding! I've also watched some sex show before where some sex doctor said that multiple orgasms are possible for any woman, but it's just a matter of her being able to get past it mentally. I haven't quite decided yet if that's a crock of s***, but I've been trying and definitly haven't been able to accomplish that yet. Ha ha...
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Date: 2007-06-07 10:55 pm (UTC)I usually have a very healthy libido, and we usually have sex every other day if not every day. But I think I heard something about that too, with women becoming less sensitive or something.
Doing Kegals is the strengthening of the PC muscles right? Do you know how to do it? I just know that it can be done...haha... Sometimes I just try to sit and clench them and unclench just in case that helps.
I've heard the same thing with the vibrators, so I've pretty much ruled those out for now. But I'm not really against toys I guess, I just haven't used them much. Perhaps I'll have to go shopping, haha...
Thank you so much for responding!
I've also watched some sex show before where some sex doctor said that multiple orgasms are possible for any woman, but it's just a matter of her being able to get past it mentally. I haven't quite decided yet if that's a crock of s***, but I've been trying and definitly haven't been able to accomplish that yet. Ha ha...