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[nizikki.livejournal.com]

Ok... question. My boyfriend has really, and I mean REALLY, got a problem with coming too early. We have tried the extra pleasure condoms and they work, but he can't really feel anything. Is this something he needs to go to a doctor for, or do you know of anything we could do by ourselves?

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[c0c0c0.livejournal.com]

Try a cock ring.

[appletrees.livejournal.com]

I have heard that if you "stop and start", it helps in the long run.

So... keep going until he's about to come, then just stop and let him chill out for a few moments, then start again, then stop. I've heard that that will help after a while, but I don't have any experience with that... HTH

[kittekaat.livejournal.com]

It might help if he learns to get you off first with his hands or mouth or toys before you have intercourse, simply because then it won't matter so much if he gets off really fast during intercourse.

[belisha.livejournal.com]

the stop and start thing works pretty well

also another probably easier solution is let him come quick, then have him spend 20 mins or so on you, and by then he'll be able to go at it once again. generally the second time is much slower and more pleasurable for the guy.

good luck!

[katlynel.livejournal.com]

Check the sextips memories under "premature ejaculation."

an idea

[hokahey.livejournal.com]

you ought to ask in phallicpregunta

Re: an idea

[hokahey.livejournal.com]

(it's like vaginapagina except for men's issues.

[evanpoop.livejournal.com]

He should practice on his own. Masterbating until he is just about to come, and then stop himself. I have never had a serious problem with it, but I was able to get to the point where I could have sex for well over an hour without coming. If he is still having problems then he should try to please you in other ways.

[spazrocker.livejournal.com]

I've heard on loveline that he should masturbate more/you should have sex more... that way he doesn't have as much sperm etc stored up... then it's harder for him to cum as fast...
hope that helps!

[nizikki.livejournal.com]

Thanks guys. It's just the whole stop and start thing gets a little bit old. But what can you do, you know? I'm not complaining for my sake, because we don't have sex a lot, but it's more of an embarassment for him.