vaginapagina | difficulty having orgasm when even around a guy (Reply)

alright, so, i think i've got a little bit of a strange problem. as i have been masturbating since i was about 6 years old, and on a regular basis since then, and can't ever remember NOT achieving orgasm, i feel i'm highly skilled in the art of getting myself off. however, for some reason whenever i'm even sitting beside a guy and masturbating, it takes much much longer, and it's much more difficult for me to obtain orgasm. having a guy manually stimulate me is an even worse scenerio, as even if it feels a little bit good, it's never enough to get me even close to getting off. i'm pretty sure it's something psychological, as i'm physically capable of reaching orgasm in mere minutes on my own. oral sex does nothing for me, and only once have i orgasmed during intercourse, and that was when i was stimulating my clitoris at the same time. i've tried and felt myself coming close to replicating orgasm during sex, but i always end up numbing my girlie bits up or something.

anyway, i'm wondering if any of you ladies have any suggestions as to how i can shake this weird psychological thing and be able to achieve pleasure and orgasm from my partner, and not just afterwards by myself!