i am not recommending this, just telling you my personal solution to this problem. my ex and i used condoms for a while, but i guess we switched brands and the ones we were using were too tight for him. he literally stopped enjoying sex because of the discomfort. well his mom found an open condom wrapper and made me tell my mom, who put me on birth control. once i started the birth control, we stopped using condoms. neither of us is STD infected (he had been a virgin, and i had been tested), and i didn't allow him to cum inside me. it worked (/works, since we are still on and off) well for us.
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Date: 2007-01-28 02:43 am (UTC)my ex and i used condoms for a while, but i guess we switched brands and the ones we were using were too tight for him. he literally stopped enjoying sex because of the discomfort.
well his mom found an open condom wrapper and made me tell my mom, who put me on birth control. once i started the birth control, we stopped using condoms.
neither of us is STD infected (he had been a virgin, and i had been tested), and i didn't allow him to cum inside me. it worked (/works, since we are still on and off) well for us.