Yes, it absolutely counts. I spent two years waiting for my current boyfriend (a virgin at the time) to be ready to have sex. I cared about him and wanted to be with him and he just wasn't ready. Our drives in general were compatible, though, so it's a bit different. Maybe you should have a frank, polite discussion with your boyfriend on why he's not so into sex? It could be stress about the paternity suit/work/etc or he could just not be very sexual. Either way, it'd do you good to know so that you can make decisions on your compatibility.
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Date: 2006-12-11 02:48 am (UTC)Also, good luck on finals!!