My girlfriend is the same as you -- she told me upfront when we started our relationship that she doesn't ever plan to have sex -- and it's something I've been able to deal with okay.
However, if your guy isn't planning to respect your feelings, I'd say you should seriously start questioning whether you two are right for each other. It could be that he's one of those people who really does need sexual intercourse in order to feel complete, or that he simply isn't willing to go without it, in which case he needs to find someone else, because you shouldn't be coerced into having sex with him just because he wants it. If you don't want it, you don't have to comply with his desires.
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Date: 2006-10-09 02:50 pm (UTC)However, if your guy isn't planning to respect your feelings, I'd say you should seriously start questioning whether you two are right for each other. It could be that he's one of those people who really does need sexual intercourse in order to feel complete, or that he simply isn't willing to go without it, in which case he needs to find someone else, because you shouldn't be coerced into having sex with him just because he wants it. If you don't want it, you don't have to comply with his desires.