I just said "We're not going to have sex anymore, 'kay?". Of course he was open to the idea... he loves and respects me, not to mention the fact that he doesn't want to be a parent, either. Look, if he doesn't trust you/respect you enough to not have sex with you, then he's not really a good boyfriend, is he? Even if my boyfriend didn't understand completely why I didn't want to have sex, he would respect it. If he breaks up with you, its really his loss, is it not? Don't stress it. Do what feels right FOR YOU... your body is not something he has a right to in any means. You get to decide if he gets to have sex with you. Period. Don't be afraid to say no! Okay I'm done. That was long.
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Date: 2006-09-27 03:35 am (UTC)Of course he was open to the idea... he loves and respects me, not to mention the fact that he doesn't want to be a parent, either.
Look, if he doesn't trust you/respect you enough to not have sex with you, then he's not really a good boyfriend, is he? Even if my boyfriend didn't understand completely why I didn't want to have sex, he would respect it.
If he breaks up with you, its really his loss, is it not?
Don't stress it. Do what feels right FOR YOU... your body is not something he has a right to in any means. You get to decide if he gets to have sex with you. Period.
Don't be afraid to say no!
Okay I'm done. That was long.