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how do your partners feel about period sex? how do YOU feel about it? if you do engage in period sex, do you avoid certain positions? do you do anything differently?


my story-
im totally ok with my period. (i feel empowered - i can make new life!) im the type of girl who will pull out a chunk from her instead cup and look at it really closely. i just think the whole period experience is amazing. (i guess it helps that i never have cramps or pms?)

ANYWAY!

my boy have been together for about a year and a half, sexually active for about a year. i suppose this is a good time to mention that we are both jewish. after we first started having sex, he asked me if i wanted to be a niddah*, that is, to abstain from sex during my period and for 7 days after that. besides "purity" reasons, its supposed to encourage a more spiritual bond between partners, as they have to find others ways besides touching to be close to each other. i guess on paper it sounds good, in a way. but i personally find it a silly and slightly demeaning practice. my sexuality knows no rules. it certainly doesnt follow laws concerning my period. and as for the "purity" thing, dont get me started. i told him this and he said, "yeah, ok, i was just wondering. i dont have any problem with blood." i was still really worried he had an issue with my period.

the first time we actually did have period sex i was afraid he would be grossed out. i was afraid he would have moral issues with it. we both agreed that he should wear a condom even though we both hate the silly things. but, obviously over the year our sex life has matured and evolved a lot. now he has no issue going to town without a condom on. when he pulls out and theres UTERUS CHUNKS ALL OVER HIS COCK i feel this stab of horror because im afraid he'll feel a stab of horror, but he just breaks out a baby wipe and laughs and my expression. things sure have changed, with him at least. the reason i still feel that little stab of horror is because of that conversation we had about niddah LAST YEAR. weve talked about it and he assures me period sex is totally hot - "more slippery!" - but in that moment when i see his bloody cock that conversation still comes back to me sometimes.

i guess you could say that hes more ok with period sex now than i am.

END STORY.

*religious text: And if a woman have an issue, and her issue in her flesh be blood, she shall be in her impurity seven days; and whosoever toucheth her shall be unclean until the even.

any other jewish girls here who practice these laws, even loosely?
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