Another thing to think about is: have you always masturbated in the same way? If you have always, say, only rubbed your clitoris to get off, you may have trained your body and your mind only to get off in that way. I would suggest trying different techniques on yourself until you find the ones you like. That is, all the ones you like, not just the tried and true way of getting an orgasm. Then you can try them with your boyfriend.
Sex isn't going to feel like masturbation, basically. It's a totally different thing. It can be really annoying if you are really good at getting yourself off, only to find that sex is more complicated.
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Date: 2006-07-18 11:09 am (UTC)Sex isn't going to feel like masturbation, basically. It's a totally different thing. It can be really annoying if you are really good at getting yourself off, only to find that sex is more complicated.