It may be all performance anxiety. Relax, and what happens happens. Maybe have him use the vibrator on you?
I think you're probably just too worried about making it happen. You are very new at this game, and I think with time (and with sex, time=fun in my experience) you'll get your big O with him.
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Date: 2006-07-18 01:53 am (UTC)I think you're probably just too worried about making it happen. You are very new at this game, and I think with time (and with sex, time=fun in my experience) you'll get your big O with him.