Yeah, you just have to talk to him I'm afraid. No shortcuts there. It can be done without insult though.
Here for example is a rather lovely little guide I found (http://www.clitical.com/how-to/kissing.php) on how to train a bad kisser:
from Lou Paget’s book, How to be a Great Lover: Girlfriend-to-Girlfriend Totally Explicit Techniques that will Blow His Mind.
“The best way to address the so-called kissing problem is to show him how you like to be kissed. By following these 4 steps, you could have your perfect kiss as early as tonight:
1. Tell him how much you love to kiss
2. Kiss him the way you love to be kissed so he knows exactly what that feels like.
3. Stop, pull back, and say to him, “Will you show me what it feels like to be kissed by me?”
4. If he kisses you right, make sure he knows how much you enjoyed it and show him how stimulated you feel. Men tend to not forget what gets them results. (If he didn’t do it right, repeat steps 1-3 as may times as necessary.)”
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Date: 2006-07-12 10:49 am (UTC)Here for example is a rather lovely little guide I found (http://www.clitical.com/how-to/kissing.php) on how to train a bad kisser:
from Lou Paget’s book, How to be a Great Lover: Girlfriend-to-Girlfriend Totally Explicit Techniques that will Blow His Mind.
“The best way to address the so-called kissing problem is to show him how you like to be kissed. By following these 4 steps, you could have your perfect kiss as early as tonight:
1. Tell him how much you love to kiss
2. Kiss him the way you love to be kissed so he knows exactly what that feels like.
3. Stop, pull back, and say to him, “Will you show me what it feels like to be kissed by me?”
4. If he kisses you right, make sure he knows how much you enjoyed it and show him how stimulated you feel. Men tend to not forget what gets them results. (If he didn’t do it right, repeat steps 1-3 as may times as necessary.)”