Be direct (while still being kind). Sometimes that's simply the only way. That way he knows exactly what you want and won't have to guess.
I've noticed that many magazines claim to tell you what a man "really" thinks or wants. I've found, in my relationship with my husband, that's it's more productive to ignore the magazines and simply ask my husband what he thinks and wants. No magazine can ever replace the direct input of my husband when it comes to what he thinks, wants, and does.
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Date: 2006-07-12 03:55 am (UTC)I've noticed that many magazines claim to tell you what a man "really" thinks or wants. I've found, in my relationship with my husband, that's it's more productive to ignore the magazines and simply ask my husband what he thinks and wants. No magazine can ever replace the direct input of my husband when it comes to what he thinks, wants, and does.