painful sex and orgasms

[groupieforhire.livejournal.com]

Hey everyone. I have three random questions which (I think/hope) are pretty unrelated.

The first is about orgasms, in response to the multiple orgasm post below. Forget multiple orgams; are there women who simply can't orgasm from intercourse? It took my current boyfriend 3 months of trying, but (unlike those before him) he succeeded orally and we haven't had much of a problem with that since. Vaginal, on the other hand, usually feels nice, but I've never felt orgasmy, if that makes since. Are there a lot of women like that?

Question number two... anal... any ways to make it less uncomfortable?

And question number three... sex has always been pretty painful for me. Mostly sort of a stinging kind of pain; we have to stop somewhat often, and the only way to make it stop hurting is usually to take a bath (the hot water seems to help a lot). I've gotten it checked out, but haven't gotten any good answers. It's not BV, 90% chance it's not endometriosis, etc. Could it just be that my boyfriend's a bit, well, large? Any other ideas?

Thanks in advance for your help!

Comments

[groupieforhire.livejournal.com]

If it makes you feel better, I thought that way for a loooong time. Nothing ever really worked. It took my current boyfriend, who's ridiculously persistent, three months of 4+ times a week before it happened. No idea what you've tried, but I highly recommend high-energy boys ;)

[gothstar.livejournal.com]

I really think it has something to do with me, more than him. I've never gotten myself off, no one else has ever gotten me off. it may happen it may not but i'm sort of "damaged" down there, so I don't know if that has anything to do with it...

[gothstar.livejournal.com]

no i mean... literally... damaged. like, i got injured down there, lol.

I'm 19 years old, I've been fooling around since 14 and masturbating since before that, its not that it doesn't feel really good, it does, I jsut never orgasm. And I'm ok with it. It's not really a big deal to me. I know it's normal and if it happens it happens and if it doesn't that's ok too.