Hey there - just wanted to ask whether you've seen a doctor about this. It sounds like you could have vaginismus, where - usually for psychological reasons - your vaginal muscles tense up so much that penetration is impossible. Women with vaginismus often can't use tampons, insert fingers, or undergo pelvic exams. There is a difference between being tight, and being so nervous or afraid that the vaginal opening kinda clenches and seems completely shut. Feel free to ask more about vaginismus.
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Date: 2006-06-18 12:48 pm (UTC)To the OP - sorry for hijacking your post!