i'm pansexual, meaning that gender plays little role in my relationships. i've happily dated girls, boys, and everyone in between. i've shaved my head, and my boyfriend right now gets mistaken for a girl. we play with gender roles a lot, and they aren't fixed in our relationship, sometimes i'm the outside spooner and sometimes he is. i sort of consider myself gender-neutral. i've got girl parts and so on, but it's not a huge part of my life and incindentally, all my friends are boys. sometimes i think of myself as a gay boy. i don't really understand how anyone could be totally straight or totally gay, seeing as gender can be so ambiguous.
sorry this was so rambly, i'm just sort of presenting my ideas on the issue. basically in my life, personality counts for so much more than gender or sex, and i've stopped trying to classify it.
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Date: 2006-04-02 07:53 pm (UTC)sorry this was so rambly, i'm just sort of presenting my ideas on the issue. basically in my life, personality counts for so much more than gender or sex, and i've stopped trying to classify it.