I makes me feel so much better knowing that other people have had similar problems. I'm really glad people are telling me I'm not defective...I really was feeling that way and I feel better now. And I think I totally understand the labia thing! I wish it was easier. =P
About the masturbation...yeah...I was raised Catholic and didn't even really know it existed until High School, when I went to a public school. It's just I feel it's a weakness, that I should save all my feelings and such for the one I love, etc...lots of silliness, but I can't help it. That and the whole, can't turn myself on thing...I just have trouble with it for some weird reason. It was probably how I was brought up.
You're right though, I have to love myself...and learn not to think "icky" when I think of that area. *laughs* Thanks for your advice. =)
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Date: 2005-06-29 10:26 pm (UTC)About the masturbation...yeah...I was raised Catholic and didn't even really know it existed until High School, when I went to a public school. It's just I feel it's a weakness, that I should save all my feelings and such for the one I love, etc...lots of silliness, but I can't help it. That and the whole, can't turn myself on thing...I just have trouble with it for some weird reason. It was probably how I was brought up.
You're right though, I have to love myself...and learn not to think "icky" when I think of that area. *laughs* Thanks for your advice. =)