Ditto what dierdre said. I have always fantasised about rape. I would hate it in real life. In fantasy, it's about being out of control. Being taken by a strong man. Being desired so much that he can't restrain himself. Being weaker, being feminine. Not being responsible. Any or all of these. What it isn't, is a desire for actual rape.
I have discovered that I'm a submissive as well. I would suggest you read up on BDSM and see whether it appeals to you. A good place to start is http://www.castlerealm.com/subspace/subspace.htm
It's totally normal to fantasise about people other than your current partner. You'd be weird if you didn't, really.
Oh, and the place to ask the question is probably the sextips group.
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Date: 2005-05-28 09:08 am (UTC)Any or all of these. What it isn't, is a desire for actual rape.
I have discovered that I'm a submissive as well. I would suggest you read up on BDSM and see whether it appeals to you. A good place to start is http://www.castlerealm.com/subspace/subspace.htm
It's totally normal to fantasise about people other than your current partner. You'd be weird if you didn't, really.
Oh, and the place to ask the question is probably the sextips group.
Good luck.