Most of mine involve rape, or being completely dominated. My fantasies never include my boyfriend, and I never had fantasies that involved other boyfriends either.
Sometimes, even during sex to push myself over the edge to orgasm if I'm just not getting there, I start thinking about being watched, controlled, etc and it helps me get off in seconds.
I think it's completely normal and healthy to fantasize about such taboo (and morally wrong like being raped)things. It's a healthy way to get those desires out without being hurt/hurting someone.
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Date: 2005-05-27 10:42 pm (UTC)Sometimes, even during sex to push myself over the edge to orgasm if I'm just not getting there, I start thinking about being watched, controlled, etc and it helps me get off in seconds.
I think it's completely normal and healthy to fantasize about such taboo (and morally wrong like being raped)things. It's a healthy way to get those desires out without being hurt/hurting someone.