"before I started having sex I had great orgasms all the time by myself"
or
"before I started 'having sex' with X, we were doing something else that I wouldn't call 'sex', and I had great orgasms all the time"
or
"before I went on birth control I used to have great orgasms, but after I went on birth control, I'm having trouble reaching orgasms in the way(s) that I used to"
If A, then are you trying to have orgasms by yourself now, and it's not working, or are you not trying?
If B, try doing whatever you were doing before that you used to enjoy.
If C, yes, my understanding is that it is possible for oral birth control pills to reduce sexual desire.
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Date: 2005-05-25 06:11 pm (UTC)"before I started having sex I had great orgasms all the time by myself"
or
"before I started 'having sex' with X, we were doing something else that I wouldn't call 'sex', and I had great orgasms all the time"
or
"before I went on birth control I used to have great orgasms, but after I went on birth control, I'm having trouble reaching orgasms in the way(s) that I used to"
If A, then are you trying to have orgasms by yourself now, and it's not working, or are you not trying?
If B, try doing whatever you were doing before that you used to enjoy.
If C, yes, my understanding is that it is possible for oral birth control pills to reduce sexual desire.