vaginapagina | a little nervous (Reply)

I heard you girls here really know what you're talking about and you don't judge, so I'm really hoping that you girls can help me out. I've been spending a while looking things up and asking sex forums for their opinions, but they really don't know what they're talking about. One of the boards, who are really great and are more trusted sent me here. The best way that I've found is just to recap everything:

- I'm 16 and I've had sex more than the two times I'm going to be talking about.
- I had my last period almost a month ago
- My boyfriend and I had sex a few days after I had my period. We used a condom; I came before him so he pulled out. He never ejaculated in me or near me.
- We had sex again about two weeks later. We used a condom; he ejaculated a little inside of me and then pulled out; the majority of his ejaculation was outside of me.
- A little before we had sex the 2nd time, I started to spot. It was dried blood and I thought that it was just spotting so that's why we had sex again. Only, it lasted about 3/4 of a week afterwards.
- It's been two weeks since my spotting and four weeks since my last period. I was supposed to get my period around this time (from the 10th-15th was my expected date since my last period).

I've been stressing a lot just because I've heard different people telling me different things (you're pregnant, no you're not pregnant, you should be worried, you shouldn't). I'm scared because I already think I'm the stupidest kid in the world for having sex and plus this. I'm planning to take an OTC test soon, but I just need someone's opinion or advice on whether this is something that I should definitely be worrying about or if taking the OTC would just be precautionary and that I shouldn't really be so worried. I was thinking that maybe the spotting was what my period was and I was just irregular? I don't know- does anyone have any factual information or something that can help calm my nerves?

Thank you so much for any help you can give.