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[annimh.livejournal.com]

Last night my boyfriend and I had sex for the third time. The other times were brief and my boyfriend pulled out and ejaculated on my stomach (for the record, I am on birth control!). Well, last night he ejaculated inside of me instead and, having read up on things, I wrapped a towel around myself and hustled into the bathroom to squeeze the semen out of me. I figured I had gotten as much out of me as I could, so I wandered back to bed, lay the towel down beneath me, and ended up conking out.

Fast forward to this morning. I wake up, putz around for a bit, and wander over to the bathroom to go pee. And what followed was possible the most uncomfortable, painful experience while taking a piss. It was just the biggest burning sensation ever. I tried to squeeze some more semen out of me, figuring that's what it was, and continued to just wipe away anything that came out of my vaginal region from then until I went to get breakfast with my boyfriend. Things went back to normal (no itchiness, just a mild discomfort for a good ten minutes before it went away).

Then, a few hours later, I went to take a shower. And I guess the shampoo or the body wash went down my body and went over my vaginal region. More burning. It wasn't as bad, but bad enough where I quickly had to rinse the shampoo off my hands to try and make sure that there wasn't any soap in that region.

Went pee again and some more mild burning. Nothing like this morning where it was just full-out pain and misery.

I don't know what to make of it. I don't believe I have a yeast infection since I'm fine unless some soap gets near there or I go take a pee. I've had yeast infections before and it doesn't feel the same. Maybe I'm allergic to the semen? But I've never had a problem with it before. It's been on my skin and in my mouth with no problems. And it didn't bother me last night...just this morning. I also know we're both STD free. We've both never been with anyone else intimately before. I figure if it goes away then there really isn't a big deal, but if it happens again the next time I have sex and my boyfriend ejaculates into me...there's obviously a problem. But I don't want to brush it off like it's nothing to worry about.

I don't like burning :(

Comments

[emmieslost.livejournal.com]

i don't think anything is wrong. i used to get that same burning sensation when i'd pee after sex. you learn to lean down and forward (with your head by your feet) so you don't pee as much on your self and it doesn't burn as bad. :)

[annimh.livejournal.com]

Alll righty :) Hopefully that's the case!

[emmieslost.livejournal.com]

i do agree with the other posters, that it could possibly be a UTI, but i'm not a dr. so i cannot diagnose you. if it last more then a day or so you should see a dr. :) i wouldn't be too worried about it though! :)

[finemadness.livejournal.com]

you could have a urinary tract infection. i find that if i dont pee after having sex i will get one. and just use water on the outside of your vagina or very very little soap.

[strand3d.livejournal.com]

I agree. It sounds like it could be a UTI to me. If it burns when you pee, you probably need to see a doctor and get some antibiotics. It'll only get worse, and if you notice a bit of blood in your urine, then make sure to call your doctor.

[annimh.livejournal.com]

I definitely pee'd right after sex when I went to squeeze everything out...but thanks for the heads up and if it doesn't clear up by Monday, I'll give a doctor a call

[mammothali.livejournal.com]

You could have tiny invisible-to-the-eye tears around the opening of your vagina. This has happened to me, and anything that touches it (lube, urine, soap) makes it burn, because it's basically like rubbing salt on a wound. It'll go away in a few days, just lay off the sex for a while and let it heal.

[emmycantbemeeko.livejournal.com]

That's what I was thinking. It sounds like there's some abrasion from the sex and the burning is just irritation of that.

To the OP- try some synthetic lube next time, it makes a world of difference. Even if you're very aroused and producing lots of natural lube when you begin, it can dry up over the course of the sex or be insuffient to the task, especially if your partner is somewhat large and/or you have fairly energetic sex. A squirt of water-based lube on the relevant bits will help prevent the kind of irritation is sounds like you have.

[emmieslost.livejournal.com]

exactly! since i use lube all the time now i don't have a problem with this any longer... :)

[constructingme.livejournal.com]

yeah, this sounds like it, especially if you're new to sex and this was your first "full" session.-

[annimh.livejournal.com]

Ah, that's probably it. Thanks for the info! :)

[teloola.livejournal.com]

my guess would be a uti or just irritation.

to help prevent uti's its best to pee RIGHT after sex.
i wouldn't worry too much, but if it continues to be a problem, just head over to the doctor and get it checked out.

its quite possible its just irritation from thrusting, i get that too especially when i havent had sex in a while (one year and counting, next time should be a blast! *sarcasm*)

[aperfectself.livejournal.com]

It could be that the semen is causing a bit of a reaction. Your body will eventually get used to it. Mine did, but it took awhile (months, in fact).

[tamisevens.livejournal.com]

after I have sex, every single time, I usually find some way of showering. I'm not talking about a full body-washing shower, but I just dose my genital region with water. If I don't, the skin around my vagina (and my vagina itself) becomes just like you described. I wouldn't call it being allergic to seman, just that my skin gets a bit irritated if the jizz (what I prefer to call it) sits around on me for too long. if you have the smallest little cut somewhere, or a razor burn that you weren't aware of, or whatever... the jizz might irritate it a bit.

my boyfriend has the same problem (sensitive skin). If he falls asleep before cleaning off, he'll get little red bumps around his stomach and dick, they usually last a day or two and then go away.

My post-sex showers are usually 20 seconds, max. I've even done it while camping (just poured about half a bottle of water around my vagina), and it solves all the problems.

[princessern.livejournal.com]

that happened to me the first few times my boyfriend came inside of me but we've been having sex for a year now and it doesn't happen anymore. i just think my body needed to get used to it. although usually it ends up being so messy that he will come on me instead of inside me.

[boneden.livejournal.com]

The soap situation leads me to believe that you just stretched yourself, cut yourself, or tore yourself a tiny bit.

The first few times I had sex, and the times when I had sex after a month or more without it... I experienced the same thing. I asked my boyfriend to take a good look down there and he said he saw a few very small lines torn in me, or that I'm stretched out.

Give it a bit (probably a week or so) and you should heal up fine, and the burning should go away. If you keep experiencing burning, then head to the doctor and get checked out for a UTI :)

[https://users.livejournal.com/--missjealousy/]

UTI maybe?