Hi all...

[magicmitsuki.livejournal.com]

I bought my first dildos a month or so ago. They are your standard non-vibrating plastic/rubber(?) HE-MAN dildos, but pink and transperant (one is "regular size" and the other is a "monster"). I'm not too keen on having a dildo vibrate "all up in there", but I would like to try something small for my clit, so I don't have to worry about hand-cramps anymore. Any suggestions?

Also, an observation. I'm the kind of person who simply inserts a dildo, then just focuses on clitoral stimulation until I orgasm, and then I mess with the dildo afterward. However, while it's just sitting inside, it sort of feels odd. The plastic feels like it's irritating the walls of my vagina. The feeling goes away when I take it out, or when I move it... but it sort of ruins the illusion of penis when I can clearly feel that it's something other than skin in there. Any idea how to fix that?


x-posted to good_vibrations

Comments

[bastek.livejournal.com]

Have you tried warm lube, maybe? Maybe try getting one made out of a different material, like silicon or maybe "soft skin (http://goodvibes.com/cgi-bin/sgsh0102.exe?FNM=56&UID=2004080610120508&SKW=CD23)". Sorry if this doesn't help you any.

[magicmitsuki.livejournal.com]

Yea, I'm probably going to try the lube thing (to put something between my skin and the dildo). This might sound dumb, but I've never heard of warm lube. LOL... I need to find some of that!

I actually just bought them to ease urges for these two months that I'm away from my boyfriend. I foresee using them in the future a bit, but not as much as I have been. So, dildos aren't something I'm going to want to spend a lot of money on, I mean, or else I probably would look at alternative materials.

Except I would probably spend a bit on a really nice little vibrator, which I would end up using alot, LOL.

Thanks, you helped a lot actually. :D

[bastek.livejournal.com]

I don't really mean the "warming lube". just buy some astro glide or whatever lube you preffer, and hold it under hot/warm water for a while. It's pretty pleasant, i think..
I wish the archives were up though, so you could get some good links to places to buy nice vibes. I'm sure that if you can make it feel good with just your fingers, even the cheapest vibe would be good for you. Try the "Mini massager (sometimes called 'pocket rocket')" or the "water dancer". If you have a Spencers gift in your mall, they sell the mini massagers there for about...10 or 15 i think? It'll serve you well :>

Good luck

[aimingforpeace.livejournal.com]

You may be having a reaction to the material if it's a jelly dildo. You might want to look at getting a silicon one, as they're hypoallergenic.

[brak5169.livejournal.com]

my ex-gf was allergic to her dildo and used a condom on it and the rash stopped..

[magicmitsuki.livejournal.com]

I don't have a rash, and I'm not allergic. As I said in my post, it just feels odd when it's in, and I would just like it not to.

[brak5169.livejournal.com]

ah i see.. but maybe a condom would make it feel more comfy but then what do i know..lol

[https://users.livejournal.com/-desiderio/]

ahhh good old brak <3

[brak5169.livejournal.com]

we try .. we try out best ;]

[shallowgothgirl.livejournal.com]

adam and eve online sell some nice vibes. My BF and I bought our first one there and then I bought my personal one at a store local to me call Condom Revolution. They might have a site but I'm not sure. The girls at ConRev were great helping me pick out my vibe! Sort of like Sexperts!

[i-bleed-magenta.livejournal.com]

for the clit stimulation, i recommend the pocket rockt. it's small, not overly powerful, inexpensive, and comes with 4 interchangeable heads that really change the sensation. i love mine