Aug. 3rd, 2013

[identity profile] ariana-08-08.livejournal.com
Hei

I just almost had a UTI (I did not have enough bacteria to get any antibiotics) and the doctor told me to drink lots of water, I drank a lot if water, cranberry and orange juice over the next couple of days, and I got better, now about a week later the same awfull "I'm about to wet myself" feeling is back. And I am wondering if it might be possible that an yeast infection might be causing the UTI? Is there any connection there? Can an yeast infestion cause an UTI?
[identity profile] celery-soda.livejournal.com
My boyfriend is ten years older than I am (I am twenty). We're disgustingly happy. His parents are pleased, his closest friend and his wife are supportive, my friends are supportive. We see the same therapist (him for a few years longer than I), and she thinks it is a positive thing for both of us.

However, we get a lot of bullshit about the age difference. My partner and I have discussed it at length, and the only big pattern we've noticed is this:

Whoever is insulting me, it's always about my morality (I'm skanky/slutty), and it is only directed at me. In other words, no one insults him. Mostly it comes from a few staff members of an organization I used to work for and he used to be on the board of. Anytime they've said something inappropriate to me on "work time" (like when a mid-ranking staffer called me to ask me to volunteer then said it looked bad to date a board member if I used to work there, and she thinks we should fill out paperwork to prevent nepotism), I've reported it to their superior.

We also already have a "rule" in place where, at larger functions, I text him if someone has said something inappropriate and we leave together (per the advice of our therapist).

How do I deal with it when they are not working, though? We both already don't return calls from the few "offenders" if they don't leave an organization-related voicemail, since one woman in particular likes to send barbs over the phone. I avoid the offenders at events, and I limit their access to my Facebook profile.

I am hesitant to respond with insults of my own; thus far my response is either to report it to their superior, or point out the flaw in the argument. (When someone implies I am a gold-digger, I joke about the debt my recently graduated partner accrued to earn a professional degree. Now that he actually has a lucrative gig, this won't work anymore but oh well.) When I discussed it with their superior first, I pointed out the issues that arise when the staff of a progressive organization starts slut-shaming women. If it helps you to know, their superior is receptive and concerned about the behavior.

Any other suggestions? 
[identity profile] irishneko.livejournal.com
Hey there, I'm new and join because I'm a little scared and would like some advice.

I have a lump on the inside of my labia minora, it's small, hard, no bigger than a pea. Smooth and inside the skin, I had to feel for it to find it and it can be moved around. It doesn't hurt, doesn't pop but gets irritated if I try to squeeze it and it doesn't itch. It's shown up before but I thought it was a cyst or some weird ingrown hair because it showed up after shaving. It went away after awhile and now it's another one has appeared again also after shaving, I think in the same spot. I was scared it might be a genital wart but it hasn't shown up any where else.

Please help.

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