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Hi everyone! I'm super new here and, although I have a feeling this question may have already been asked, I'm having trouble finding the pages I need. So if this question has already been answered, I would love the link to the page.
I'm a 21 year old female. I have been masturbating for as long as I can remember. And even my earliest memories I have only ever been able to orgasm in one position; laying on my back, my legs open slightly and stretched out in front of me, directly stimulating my clitoris. In that position I can reach multiple, wonderful orgasms. And I never worried about it until my boyfriend and I have became sexually active about a year ago. I still can only orgasm in that one position. We have tried many different things, mostly with him penetrating and me stimulating. But nothing ever works. If my legs aren't stretched out in front of me, I can't orgasm. He understands completely and has never once made me feel anything but loved, beautiful, sexy, and powerful. He is more than willing to bring me to orgasm in that position as many times as I want, but I want to feel the connection that comes with being able to orgasm during sex, or at least be able to stimulate myself enough so that I can orgasm with him inside of me. It is the most frustrating thing in the world to be so close to orgasm, to have it right within my reach, but not be able to achieve it.
I was wondering if anyone knew how to retrain the body to be able to orgasm from multiple positions. Like I said before, I'm sorry if this question has been asked before, I just am a little lost as to where to look. So I would love links to pages for directions on retraining, or any gems of wisdom anyone would be willing to share. Thank you!