Letting him ejaculate inside me.

[purplebrick.livejournal.com]

Hey VP,

I recently started a new relationship with a great guy, and he wants to cum inside me. In my previous long term relationship, the guy just always pulled out even though I was on the pill, so I guess I just got used to never having it in there. I'm a little put off by the idea for some reason, so I guess I'm here to ask if it's really safe to let him do it inside me if I take my pill properly every day? Is the risk of pregnancy like way higher if he goes inside me versus if he pulls out?  I'm pretty consistent when I take it, it's pretty much within the same hour every day.

Thanks!

itchy post-wax pubic hair

[corinthia-moon.livejournal.com]

Hello ladies,

I got a Brazilian wax about 6 weeks ago. It was for a vacation, and it's growing back, and I have no intention of getting another Brazilian anytime soon, though I may get just the bikini line done at some point.

My problem is it's itching like fuck as it grows back, and it's not exactly work appropriate to scratch my crotch! Anything vag-friendly I can put on it to make it stop itching? The itching is mostly in the hairy part a couple inches above my vulva and on the sides, not on my vagina itself. Right now the hair is different lengths, but mostly about 1/2 cm long.

Strange cramps?

[skay210.livejournal.com]

Hi all! Have a question about strange cramps I've been having around the time of my period lately. I guess my main question is -- what do your cramps feel like for you? I'm curious to get a sense of how other people describe theirs. 

I have never had terrible periods/PMS, and although I get cramps usually during the few days prior to my period arriving and the first few days I have it, but they tend to be mild and sort of...all over? Lower abdomen, lower back, just a general achy feeling. The past couple times I've gotten my period, my cramps have been much more localized and sharper...I've been getting almost "flares" of pain in my lower pelvic regions on the sides, like right above my hips. Imagine where your appendix would be on the right side, and then the same spot on the left. Is this where my ovaries are?

I should also note that I was recently diagnosed with bladder cancer (and I'm 24, so wtf, but that's another conversation for another day), and I've had a myriad of procedures done...cystoscopies, surgery, the treatment is a fluid inserted once a week via a catheter...etc. There's been lots of activity down there. I've noticed that the weird period cramps seemed to start in a similar timeframe that all the stuff with my bladder has been going on, so I wonder if it's related somehow...

In any case. I'm wondering, what do your cramps feel like, and is what I'm feeling "normal", and also has anyone had a change in their cramping feelings?

(Sorry this is so long!)