Pain during first time, and getting the right angle.

[donnexvii.livejournal.com]

Hello all,

I have a query about first time, and pain during sex. I've read the tagged previous entries on this, so I hope I'm not wasting your time by asking the same questions again.

My boyfriend and I had sex, both of us for the first time, a few days ago. Like some of the people who posted earlier here, we had a problem - he didn't fit. We'd done a bit of stretching/foreplay and I was well lubricated. The problem seemed to be that his penis naturally curves downward, even when erect , and consequently, when he entered, it was causing constant pressure on the inside of my vagina, towards the bottom. This was quite painful. I was wondering if anyone might know if (a) we're doing it wrong? or (b) if there's a position we could use that would make it easier. We tried it first with me on my back, and then, later, with him kneeling behind me (doggystyle). The first was a little easier than the second.

Any help would be greatly, greatly appreciated.
Yours in pain.

- donnexvii

Edited to add a descriptive title.