orgasms and needing to pee

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Hey VPers, just a quick question about orgasms. Whenever my boyfriend fingers me roughly and I come close to orgasm I get an intense, a very intense, urge to pee. I've heard and read that I should just give in to it and just enjoy, but I'm just really scared that I will pee. Also, could it be possible that the feeling is ejaculation instead of urination and I just get a bit confused because I'm not used to it? I'd appreciate some tips to get to mind-shattering-earth-moving orgasms without the worrying about needing to pee!

clots, hairiness, light periods & RAGE !!

[call-me-lovey.livejournal.com]

Hiya,

My periods are so light I can't tell I'm on. I only know I'm on when I see the odd clot & it feels like I've got diorrea/about to have an accident all the time (never actually get it/have one) It’s usually just one clot every few weeks, sometimes every few days. I’m also hairy – I have to use Veet for legs on my face, the hair growth’s that strong I feel like a Yeti.

I get very teary & shout a lot, making my poor dog run away all flat. My stomach churns too.
I’m disabled & I’m not planning on kids because I don't think it'd be fair -- even with help, the most I could do for one would be recommend some good music (I’m in a wheelchair & can’t move very much)

Advice, please do not judge me

[hope1517.livejournal.com]

Hello,

In a week or so I should know if I am pregnant. I have decided if indeed I am I will terminate the pregnancy, I feel absoultey horrible saying that, :( Anyway, I found a place that does an early non-surgical method called, "Aspiration" It takes about 5 mintues and your awake during the entire procedure. It's nothing like a surgical abortion, because they don't scrap. From what I understand its similar to a pap smear except they numb the cervix, open the cervix a bit, and use a small plastic tool to do something to the lining of the walls which immedinatly ends the pregnancy. As far as pain it said its typically a couple minutes of pressure and cramping. You then get a second ultrasound and they tell you right there and then if it worked. And after 24 hours, unlike a medical abortion with scrapping, you can use tampons, swim etc... ALSO, its extremely safe and simple and done in an office thats "private" and not an aportion clinic. They only do this method and the medical pill. They leave no address on their website either to avoid protesting and such. Although very expenive compared to surgical, at least around here, its seems best for me considering its very simple and private.

This makes me feel so much better as my first termination was a surgical one and it was not a thrilling experience and the recovery process, bleeding was a decent amount of time.

Has anyone done this or know more about it? please your advice will ease my mind. This method makes me feel a little less scared abouts seeing a positive test

sooo

[misssockpuppet.livejournal.com]

i think the yeastie might be returning? i had the slightest white discharge today after sex, and some itch/burn directly after. i just recovered from a yeastie a week and a half ago. and now i'm worried its coming back!
also, i'm getting some tiny pains in/around my ovaries (i think?!) so i hope that's not related. anyone want to give some piece of mind? he wouldn't be giving me the yeastie because we refrained from sex per doctor's orders during the duration of the infection.
i'm so scared.

is it okay to feel this little burn? :(

MJ for cramps??

[frankie4.livejournal.com]

 I feel like I have posted on here a lot lately but I think vaginapagina is amazing.  I have learned so much stuff and like that real people are answering questions instead of dreaded google.  Thank you all for all answers to my questions so far (and my future ones) and for the answers to other members questions that have taught me something!  

After a 109 day cycle I am finally having a period; I stopped taking the pill and switched to paragard.  I started having cramps about a week before my period finally started and I can not even begin to describe the pain.  They are not there all the time but when the cramps come I double over/grab onto something and almost scream; my boyfriend keeps telling me to go to the doctors but I know on paragard periods can be terrible for a while.  I am, in my opinion, immune to pain relievers (anything from motrin to tylenol with codeine).  I was just looking up cures for cramps and I came across smoking marijuana for them.  I have not smoked in a few years since high school but I was wondering if anyone else smokes to relieve their cramps.  Do you think, if it does work, that it actually relieves and helps the pain or if you just feel better because you've smoked?  Any help on this would be great because I want to try anything that will help with these cramps I am having. Thanks 

Question for stackers of birth control pills.

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While I don't stack my pills every cycle, I do indulge every couple of cycles. I am on a monophasic pill and have experienced no side effects from stacking.

That is, of course, unless you count being denied a refill because it is "too soon" per your insurance providers. I explained to them that I stack them.. so in effect, I am taking 30-31 pills a month when they only have me taking 21 a month. If I do this more than 1-2x a year, it throws things off enough that they start denying refills for when I need them.

For any of you who stack, how do you get around this?

I love my birth control and don't want to change it to a brand that is marketed for stacking just so my insurance will cover it.

Thanks!